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Compared with older generation who started to make a living at 16,18,or 20,  today more and more young people wouldn’t have their course firmly set until to be nearly 30. pls. analyze this social phenomenon and give your comments.
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because we stay in school for too many years now.
4楼2011-03-07 12:11:16
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Originally posted by lppv at 2011-03-07 12:11:16:
because we stay in school for too many years now.

i'm 30, however, i still stay in school
5楼2011-03-07 12:16:25
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Originally posted by erics080 at 2011-03-07 12:16:25:
i'm 30, however, i still stay in school

as a PHD?
7楼2011-03-07 12:16:58
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Originally posted by witch_girl at 2011-03-07 12:16:58:
as a PHD?

right!
8楼2011-03-07 12:18:57
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lppv(金币+3): education and ambition , i see, they are two of the most important factors. 2011-03-07 16:48:39
In China
Generally speaking ,the young stay at school about 25 or more.
Thanks to the education with Chinese Characteristics.   One get higher degree means higher salary,this awareness have permeated through the society.
On the other hand , the young  have ambitions,they do not reconcile to the status.
in order to make dream come ture they struggle to the outside world,
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lppv(金币+1): i also hold this opinion, if we do not study at school, we also will work early. 2011-03-07 16:50:14
the older generation must work and have little chance to study, and now people must study more at school to learn nore
13楼2011-03-07 14:15:37
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lppv(金币+2): i think you are right,before entering the society,we should gain high degrees and more certificates. 2011-03-07 16:40:31
Now, we are facing more and more challenges and having less and less opportunities. So we must try our best to gain high degrees and more certificates in order to get a good start when we enter the complex society of China.
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lppv(金币+2): special idea and sounds reasonable.thank you for your communication. 2011-03-07 16:38:18
I do think it is a normal phenomenon, supose you lwere living in the past, and the average life maybe 60 years around; however, we live a better life now, and the average life increases to 70 even 80 years.
So, the settle age natrually icreases to 30 around. The above is just my own opinion, any call in question is welcome
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i am very sad to hear that
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lppv(金币+2): yeah, maybe it means the society is making progress. 2011-03-07 16:55:00
Because society is improving,technology is renewing all the time,competetion is so cruel ,we must learn enough to keep pace with times.
And as someone upstairs said,when we graduate from college ,we are almost 25,so the social phenomenon might seems as a developed society.
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go on! thanks for everyone's opinions
18楼2011-03-07 17:37:54
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三更雨~(金币+1): that is the reality of the society. Welcome you~~ 2011-03-07 20:28:03
In my opinion, we are under pressure with the developement of technology .Hence ,we must take more and more time to acquire knowledge and skills .
20楼2011-03-07 20:18:42
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maybe we are so young to decide what we are really need. the more we experience, the more clearly we know what we want to be
21楼2011-03-07 20:29:06
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嘉嘉有轶(金币+1): 2011-03-08 08:46:15
maybe they rely too much on their parents. They have been taken good care of since they were very young. They have got used to listen to their parents and do what they told them to. so when choosing their own life course, they feel puzzled and lost...
22楼2011-03-07 22:42:33
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嘉嘉有轶(金币+3): 2011-03-08 08:47:04
This is a tradition of responsibility, we hope we can live up to the expectations of our parents~

Generally, the child will be only too aware of what the parent expects,therefore,we always felt that the children in the burden too heavy.

But all of us know that it is difficult for us to always live up to the expectations of our parents.

In order to live up to their parents expectations, most of the kids have to study hard even over vacations.

But then who knows what might actually end up happening?

Maybe。。。

The kids will watch for signs of overload such as grouchiness, complaining about activities, brushing off practice time, changes in sleeping patterns, or failing school grades.

These problems are related to parental expectations, the child's temperament and biologic rhythms, and child-parent interactions.

I always want to make things happily, and make less mistakes If that happens I wil very happy~

In my opinion,it takes courageous parents to accept the outcome and praise the "BEST" effort even if it's not what the parents expected. And for ourselves,please separate our expections from those of our parents,oherwise we will wake up and realize we're not living our own life in future.
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The improved living conditions ,the different atmosphere and the  higher requirements make the differences among generations.
25楼2011-03-08 08:41:31
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lppv(金币+3): that is good.could it be considered that you are lucky?i believe you also make great efforts.maybe for most things being prepared earlier is better.wish your life be better and better. 2011-03-09 18:44:15
I started to work in my 22, and most of my classmates in their 30s. I see no difference between me and others until now. Even there is some, I am in a better situation because I got married earlier, bought house earlier and raised baby earlier. In China the competition is getting harder and harder. Opportunities and positions are getting less and less. That's why even after getting a better and higher degree, the catch-up people could not easily catch up with the ones who they stood at the same start-line but ran earlier for 3 or 5 years. That is the situation.
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