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德德亦菲

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[交流] Will you agree your children to study medicine again?

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I visited Rules and Laws of Medicine Board in DXY yesterday. There was a topic which was highly visited these days. The topic is “Will you agree your children to study medicine again?” I am interested in this title because I nearly applied for a clinical postgraduate last year. However, to my surprise, I found a serious problem that few doctors would permit their children to study medicine as a career.

The data show that almost all doctors now have regretted to be a doctor though everybody knows that it is a decent occupation both in China and abroad. Dxyers’ reasons about this phenomenon are different and impressive. They think their job can’t be fully understood by our society, and doctors don’t behave badly as patients have imagined. They can’t accept the disrespect from our media and patients.

One Dxyer told that he absolutely refuse his daughter to study medicine again. Because it will at least take her eight years to study in university and she must spend nearly another three years to do some stuffs in hospital. She will be too old to find a boyfriend, and it must have any effects on her pregnancy because she has to take night shifts every x-days even if she gets married.

Another Dxyer narrated his story which occurred at the beginning of his fourth year study. One surgery director taught them the first lesson about surgery. It was funny that the doctor firstly bowed to students so as to express his praise for their choice of medicine, especially in the foul medical conditions in China.

As far as I am concerned, I think we can’t criticize doctors too much. Our government asks hospitals to heal the wounded and rescue the dying, but never provide any funds for hospitals. While, hospitals and doctors are not allowed to help those financially disadvantaged patients. Then it generates a conflict between doctors and patients by appearance. However, it is not doctors’ faults in fact. I think our country is a little sly because it transfers the relationship with patients to the relationships between doctors and patients. Besides, our media exaggerate a lot of untrue reports so that many people misunderstand doctors so much.

This is an actual problem in China and I sometimes have a desire to write a paper about this phenomenon, even though I totally unknown about how to write it and present it so far. I wonder why nobody investigates this problem seriously and claims it highly in our society. I hope we can make an effort to make our confusing people know the truth and present an objective review about the genuine relationship between doctors and patients.

[ Last edited by snowtree2005 on 2006-7-5 at 18:51 ]
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zhengjiandong

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小木虫2005(金币-1):言语不雅,万望下次注意——不能打击发贴者的积极性。
好恶心,用英文写,
真诚地交流和沟通才是我进入论坛的目的
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zhaott

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小虫爸

非教师只能发探讨原创,请仔细阅读版规!谢谢支持!
人生总有限功业总无涯
3楼2006-07-05 17:39:49
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whale2000

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中国的问题多了,有问题就不做了。那我们12乙人在这干吗?

吃干饭啊。
人活着,必须有两样东西.一颗勇敢的心,一个坚定的信念. 有了勇敢的心,就会无所畏惧; 有了坚定的信念,就能无所不成!
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tanghui_1982

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傻虫、笨虫、执著的虫子!

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snowtree2005(金币+2):good suggestion!
To be a good doctor needs time, hard work and many factors which i can't say clearly. So maybe many parents don't know the information ,they hope child can have a stable job which can support him to safeguard.
  for me ,my mother hope i can study medical ,but ,acturally ,i am majoy in pharmacy finally.  First i know little about tihs field ,fortunatelly,i like it gradually.
    So i want to say if you are parent ,you should give some suggestion to y to you child ,but don't make decisions for him .Give him some place ,let him stand alone!
开心是我,快乐也是我!我就是我,一辈子做开心的人
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snowtree2005

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感谢发布[探讨原创],人人为版,版为人人。期待朋友发布更多的好贴子,并注意帖子格式要符合版规要求,以减少版主工作量。
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小木虫2005

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this is a wonderful article although there are some spelling and grammar mistakes.
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hbc517

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分享是一种快乐

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学医很辛苦
将来风险大
工资又不高
凡人说“你的是你的,我的是我的。”圣人说“你的是你的,我的也是你的 。”
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yangrq

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当个医生不容易啊
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sjtan

金虫 (小有名气)

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其实我是这样认为的:固然,病人在疾病不能得到很好治疗时会对医生产生种种苛责,但是我们同时要看到,这种责备不是只针对医生的,其他行业也一样,老师,公务员,甚至只是一个服务员,适当的责备或要求并不见得是什么坏事,可以促使一个人提高对自己的要求和技能,也许医生可能觉得自己学了这么多年,每天又那么累,不该再被指责了,可是,我们要想想,哪有很轻松又不受大家议论的职业呢?教师容易么?公务员容易么?退一万步说,我国的广大农民更不容易,更何况医生的收入以及其他权益要比其他很多行业强的多吧?!
     另外,医生子女换个其他行业也很好,其实我们经常可以发现这样一些世袭的医生或是教师子弟,有一部分是非常出色的,青出于蓝,可是很多就比较差了,躺在父辈的功绩上不思进取,就这点来说,换个职业,同时也少受点父母的影响,可能对孩子来说是个更好的选择
     这只是一些存在的情况或是可能性,不代表全部,一家之言,仅供参考
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