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[交流] 【Discussion】How to talk to your advisor about serious things

Sometimes it can be hard to talk to our advisors, but they can help us succeed in school. Here are some helpful tips to keep in mind.

1.Plan what you want to say ahead of time. Think over what you want to say in advance, and write down the two or three most important points you wnat to talk.
2.Pick a good time to talk. Try to approach them at a time when you know they will be less busy and more able to focus on you. You may evern want to ask if they could talk at a particular time so that you know you will have their attention.

3.Let them know directly that there is something you would like to discuss. To be sure you have their full attention, be direct in your language. Say,'There's something important I want to talk to you about', instead of , 'Hey, when you have a moment, I would like to talk' .

4.Disagree without disrespect. Advisors can feel offended when their views are challenged. Using respectful language and behavior is important. Resist the temptation to use sarcasm, yell or put down your advisors.

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Originally posted by 可乐=枫 at 2010-09-16 17:35:03:
I think we must be practical to get along with our advisor.

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congratulations to you as a Honorary Moderator
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Originally posted by 纯表无罪 at 2010-09-16 12:40:05:

Why do not say anything about how to get along with your advisor? I am sure that your advisor can not take a look at your post.
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Originally posted by xuediandongxi at 2010-09-16 12:52:41:


Why do not say anything about how to get along with your advisor? I am sure that your advisor can not take a look at your post.

I can't agree you anymore

Your tips are useful

漂亮而引人注目的东西不一定都善良,但善良的东西总是漂亮的。
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Originally posted by xuediandongxi at 2010-09-16 12:52:41:


Why do not say anything about how to get along with your advisor? I am sure that your advisor can not take a look at your post.

My Prof. graduated from Purdue

漂亮而引人注目的东西不一定都善良,但善良的东西总是漂亮的。
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