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[交流] 【Discussion】Was he flirting?

  
  Yesterday evening, one of my female classmate and I went to meet an old classmate, who returned from Japan.
  After registration his room in hotel, we soon came to a restaurant to have supper. During the meal, we talk some things about us and about our old classmates, such as everyones’life and work. Occasionally, he said: “eng, you’re the woman that man would like.” When we(my female classmate and I) asked why he is not married yet and said that we can introduce some good girls to him. You know what? He said( to me):’You’re the kind of girl that I want to have.” I was almost faint and pretended not noticing those words.  He said those words like no one else present. Acturally, Besides my female classmate, my son was there, too. And fortunately, he is only 3 years old and is not noticing such kind of words.
  The other time he said similar words was on the phone and almost four years ago, when I was pregnant.
  Was he flirting or just a polite remark? He wasn’t speaking those words to the other female classmate. If he was, should I meet him again? He will back soon and buy an apartment near my home. It was impossible that I never contact with him. After all, we’re old classmates and in the same industry. I don’t want to make an enemy for me. That is the style when I was young. As an adult, I want to handle this properly.

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fangye0413(金币+1):Thank you for your remind ，you are so kind ^_^ 2010-07-19 18:51:10
Lady, be cautious! You'd better not have an affair with your old classmate. You should make your attitude clear to your classmate and don't let him feel that he has the chance!!!
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That's strange! Did he know you were married and your son was there?
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fangye0413(金币+1):hehe,me too, welcome here to share more^_^ 2010-07-19 18:52:52
i don't think he is a good man, because he already know you are married and have a son. if his words are what he means, he is not virtually a good man. i don't like this kind of irresponsible man.
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Originally posted by sundaes21 at 2010-07-19 17:35:31:
i don't think he is a good man, because he already know you are married and have a son. if his words are what he means, he is not virtually a good man. i don't like this kind of irresponsible man.

I agree with you.
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well, it can be a lot of possibilities. for your own good you may need to avoid the time of being alone with hiim, that's enough.
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fangye0413(金币+1):I think you would better pretend nothing has happened.^_^ 2010-07-21 08:36:54
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Originally posted by daling8296 at 2010-07-19 17:19:16:
Lady, be cautious! You'd better not have an affair with your old classmate. You should make your attitude clear to your classmate and don't let him feel that he has the chance!!!

Thanks for your remind. But it's hard to say that when he was not saying love things directly. He can say: it's just a joke. I think I better pretend nothing has happened.
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Originally posted by xia_chong at 2010-07-19 17:28:57:
That's strange! Did he know you were married and your son was there?

yeah, he know that very much.
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