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ldfzy

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[交流] how to balance cause and family

on one hand as a spouse i need to look after the whole family actively. i care their emotion and needs hoping we live happily together. actually it's hard to reach their hearts, after all we are relatives for short. on the other hand i have my job which costs time and energy for promotion. i feel tired after work and want more care. is there a wayour for the adults like me?
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so busy life,wish you happy too~
anything goes well in our daily life
treat one by one
我喜欢“在路上”的感觉。
2楼2010-06-09 13:40:07
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Originally posted by ldfzy at 2010-06-09 13:09:35:
on one hand as a spouse i need to look after the whole family actively. i care their emotion and needs hoping we live happily together. actually it's hard to reach their hearts, after all we are re ...

actually, i think the most important thing is that dont take the bad mood from the work to your family, before you go home , you should adjust your mood and after you arrive home, your body maybe so tired but dont let your mood bad ,too~~
i want to be a happy butterfly~~
3楼2010-06-09 13:40:26
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sikasun

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You should be happy first, and believe yourself, you can do.
Enjoy your family and work, finding funs from it.
Wish you~
4楼2010-06-09 13:47:40
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zhanghuifeng

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兰蝴蝶(金币+1):nice suggestion~~ 2010-06-09 14:04:27
You can share your happiness and trouble with your family. No matter what happens, they will be with you and support you forever.
5楼2010-06-09 14:01:19
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兰蝴蝶(金币+1):very good suggestion~~ 2010-06-09 16:06:53
I think  you should make a plan to coordinate the time allocation between family and cause. No matter how bad the thing is, you should be positive and keep smiling.Don't lay yourself under great pressure. Let nature take its course.
6楼2010-06-09 16:03:25
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lbd1122

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life is not easy for anyone of us.
we are human beings not god,may be we cannot  live as we expect.
sometimes it hard to keep balance.
7楼2010-06-09 16:08:48
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花瓣

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for getting along with your spouse,I recommend one book called Man are from Mars and Women are from Venus
Have a look
8楼2010-06-10 19:47:22
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