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Nearly for one week, I was lost myself in the short dream with the Korean girl (http://muchong.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=2055044&fpage=1). When one of my junior sisters heard of this thing, she sent me some messages which really educated me. In her opinion: "As a man, one should more or less have something hidden in his heart. These things may be precious for him but actually can give nothing for him. A man can never live without wealth or power but only for the love. The love feeling is only his appendix, no matter how romantic it is, let alone the night-blooming cereus' feeling. If you said you cannot control yourself and could not forget her that must be an excuse for yourself. As a PhD, do you think it is worth wasting our time on the no return and tenderminded thing?! Do you think you are responsible for yourself?!" After reading the message, I felt a little ashamed of myself. Maybe someone won't agree with her opinion, but what she said is the truth. Actually, if a man has no wealth or power, he cannot live happily. Just as the famous writer Luxun said "wealth is the foundation of the love ". Especially in our present world, I think you cannot have a happy marriage unless you have enough wealth to guarantee. Just imagine a condition, you have no house no bus, and not enough money to pay your various fees, do you think you wife will smiling at you every day? As for us, we must face the truth and put all our heart on the thing we really need to do, but not live in the unrealistic dream. So, let’s realize ourselves clearly and to tell which is the most important thing for us. Word hard and try our best to realize our dreams. [ Last edited by xujie_tumu on 2010-5-16 at 18:38 ] |
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