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[交流] 经典常用句子及其解释【摘】

1.Don't lie. The temptation to embellish may be overwhelming,but eventually your online connection will suss out the turth. Of course,there's nothing wrong with showing yourself in the best possible light. Isn't that what one does on a job interview?

　　 2.Don't send unsolicited pictures. Instead, focus on potential partners' interests and needs and speak to them. Your ability to tolerate a cat, for instance, can often be more important to a cat-fancying woman than nine inches of photoshop enhancement.

　　 3.Don't arrange to meet without seeing each other's photo beforehand. There's nothing worse than sitting at a rendezvous, like a pub or a coffee shop, waiting for your cyberdate without knowing what to look for.

　　 4.Talk to each other on the phone before you meet. Just because you think she writes like Erica Jong, you'd be surprised how quickly turned off you can get by someone's voice, speaking manner or choice of words. Think of the last time you heard a cackling laugh ring out through a restaurant and how embarrassed you felt for the poor guy who had to put up with that voice all night.

　　 Suggests Withlin:“Talk with someone once or twice and then meet for coffee -- not a date,just something time - limited. You never know what the personal dynamics are going to be until you've actually met, no matter how long you talk on the phone.” Witlin says spending a lot of time on the phone is simply a matter of playing it safe. “It's so much easier to give good phone than to meet in person.”

　　 5.Know what you're looking for in a cyberdate. You don't want to be romancing what you think is a onenight stand while your date is auditioning husband material. On the other hand, you may be seeking a longerterm mate, while the person on the other side of the martini turns out to be married and merely looking for fun.

　　 6.Consider how important physical attributes are to you. If you work out often and live an active lifestyle, chances are you're looking for a fitbodied partner.

　　 Someone simply because she doesn't fit within your narrow margins of beauty. But if you're clear about your bodytype needs, reread Item 3.

　　 7.Don't engage in cybersex until after you've met and agreed to continue the relationship. You have no idea who or what is tapping away on the keys on the other side of the screen. It could be some guy going through a midlife crists, or some desperado who is the subject of a police sting operation.

　　 8.Don't waste a lot of time cyber chatting before you meet. This is a personal rule that you can accept or reject: If he is so wonderful that I want to get right down to it, why waste time? So if she is not wonderful, why waste time? Of course, you don't want to be accused of having only one thing on your mind, so be careful how you apply this principle.

　　 9.Always meet in a public place the first time. What if, haven forbid, you've hooked up with some Jagged Edge-type psycho, or what if she's he? There are many reasons you don't want to be pounding on someone's door for a private firsttime encounter.

　　 10.Don't take everything so personally. If your newfound friend doesn't immediately respond to your instant message, it doesn't necessarily mean you are being ignored. Don't get your spleen all in a bunch and zip off a cranky message, unless that is how you want to crash you harddrive desires. It can also signal that you've only been faking confidence. You're trying to show your best sides, so don't blow it in some pique of anger.

　　 11.Always keep a date, or call to cancel. Don't let some hapless potential partner wait needlessly at your meeting place. It takes a strong stomach to cyberdate, whether you decide to meet someone or to call the whole thing off.

[参考译文]1.切忌撒谎。也许你很想对自己加以修饰，但是你的网友迟早会发现真相。当然，尽可能好地展现你自己并无过错。在找工作面试时，不就是这样做的吗?

　　2.未经请求，不要发出照片。相反，要关注潜在伴侣的兴趣、需要，并与她们交谈。比方说，你能够容忍一只猫对于一个爱猫的女性来说，会比用photoshop9英寸美化程序要重要。

　　3.在事先没有看到对方照片的情况下，不要安排见面。最糟糕的莫过于坐在一个约会地点，例如酒吧或者咖啡馆，等待你的网上约会对象，却又不知道等来的会是什么。

　　4.你们见面之前要通过电话彼此交流。如果仅仅因为你认为她写作风格像埃里克·乔恩而喜欢她，见面时这人的声音、讲话方式、用词会立马让你感到厌恶，速度之快，让你自己都感到吃惊。想想最近一次你听到饭馆里的咯咯笑声吧，你都会为那个要整夜应付这一声音的可怜男人感到难受。

　　威特琳建议：“与某人交谈一、两次，然后一起喝咖啡，不要约会，只做时间有限的事情。不管你们在电话上聊了多长时间，在你们见面以前，你搞不清楚她个人能量有多大。”威特琳说在电话上耗费大量时间，只不过求个稳妥。“电话上可以谈得很好而直接面谈却不那么容易。”

　　5.搞清楚自己想要什么样的网恋对象。你想要一夜情，约会对象却在考察丈夫人选，这可非你所愿。另一方面，你可能在找一个长期伴侣，对方却已婚，只不过是在找乐。

　　6.考虑一下身体条件对你有多么重要。如果你经常从事体育锻练，过着一种积极的生活，那么你就要一位身体健康的伴侣。不要仅仅因为她不符合你猜狭隘的美丽定义就把她排除在外。但是如果你已很清楚你想要的体形，请重新读一遍第3条。

　　7.在你们相见，并同意继续谈下去之前，不要进行网上性爱。你不知道屏幕另一边谁在敲键盘，敲些什么。对方可能是正在经历中年危机的男人，也可能是警方秘密调查的亡命之徒。

　　8.在你们见面之前，不要花太多时间在网上聊天。这是条个人法则，你可以接受，也可以拒绝：如果她真的如此美好，我想立马见她，干吗要浪费时间?如果她不怎么样，为什么要浪费时间?当然，你不愿让别人说你心里就只想一件事，所以你要认真考虑如何运用这一原则。

　　9.第一次一定要在公共场所见面。老天不容，如果你钓上了一位贾格德·埃奇式的心理变态者，再如果她其实是一位男性，那么你如何是好?还有种种原因使你不愿意在第一次私人见面时去敲别人的门。

　　10.不要对所有事情都人个意气。如果你的新朋友没有没有立即回信，这并不意味着她就此不理你了。不要怒气冲天，发出怨言的信，除非你想拆毁自己强烈的愿望。这只表明你仅充有自信。你要努力表现你最好的一面，所以不要在怒火中污损它。

　　11.约会一定要践约，不然就打电话取消。不要让倒霉的潜在伴侣无不要地在约会地点等待。不管你是决定去见对方，还是取消，进行网恋都须有强烈的兴趣才行。

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