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闲吟居士

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[交流] Struuuuggling to find the inner peace

During the past days, I've been trying to concentrate on some examinations and read a lot. To be honest, I feel quite relieved and free
when I manage to communicate with those authors. I can see and think with the help of their eyes and experiences, thus broadening my view
unconsciously. Once in a while, I'm affected by those mainstream voices that advise me to get a steady job and find a  reliable man to marry.
I'm tortured by those words from my parents and the warm-hearted relatives. I feel lost and begin to doubt the meaning of life. I seem to be an
outlaw and a monster that frequently betray their wills. I fail to talk with them or persuade them to accept my attitudes toward life. Am I an
independent individual to control my life trail? But few of them are patient enough to listen to me. I often turn to my friends. I usually absorb
a lot of energy from my peers. They can understand me and often comfort me by narrating their similar annoyances. Since most of us are
pushed toface similar dilemma, I have no reason to complain about it. It's quite tiresome to force ourselves to follow the so called mainstream.
For me, it's never a wise choice to imitate others and neglect our inner desire. Quite  few ones can really treasure their unique value. It appears
to be a safe way to look like others. The world is noisy but I can hardly go against my will. Struuuuggling is hard, but going against our will and
inner desire is sure to be easy?
Well, I have no idea what I am saying.
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5楼: Originally posted by molmolsong at 2018-07-12 14:22:29
I think I said it somewhere else that the value of life is to do something that we really want to do, and love the one we really love. someone said: no, mate, you are too naive. it is more likely an  ...

huh, you.'ve improved quite a lot at guiding others to make career planning
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specialych

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Common annouyance coming out of the process of "being mature" !  I think a good way to keep inner peace is to ignore meaningless persuasion.
To be perfectly imperfect
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2楼: Originally posted by specialych at 2018-07-12 13:28:23
Common annouyance coming out of the process of "being mature" !  I think a good way to keep inner peace is to ignore meaningless persuasion.

A strong will is needed too.

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00waterh

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it's hard to follow our heart.
we are not just ourselves.
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