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闲吟居士

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[交流] I'm ready to listen to you

Sometimes I feel my inability to help others. Recently I have received too many complaints from my relatives and my good friends. Some are              trapped in a desperate marriage. Some don't get on well with their families. I am wondering whether these problems are ubiquitous among
all of us. Talking with them, I have a complicated mood. As a friend, I'm an outsider of their marriage. What I can do is to listen to them and
offer some meaningless suggestions. Maybe they just need a person to pour out their negative feelings. I have no confidence in offering
feasible methods to solve their problems. Each person is responsible for his choice and pays for choices he has made. Those who can't get
along with their families always complain that they are required to follow parents' arrangements and they have few rights to make their voice
heard. To be honest, everyone sees the world with their own perspectives and tend to care about others in their own way. Everyone deserves
a blame but everyone needs some sympathy as well. These days my ears are surrounded with various kinds of grumbling, however, I am inable
to eradicate their troubles. We all have our own pains and we spend our whole life struggling with them. During the process, we find the true
meanging of our life and tell what we are gonna treasure and quit. Sometimes I can find a friend to talk and then I feel much better. Now I
realize that if such a person is there ready to hear you, you may get one more chance to grow stronger.
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勤奋的zora

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molmolsong

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it happens, sometimes blue sometimes bright. if that was me, i would have recommended them some song. hahah

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stay low key, work hard, and do your best
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烟圈o0

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molmolsong: 金币+2, good idea 2018-02-22 17:25:46
i think you are a sensitive girl,so you should talk to the friends who full of power and sunshine,not the negative guys
未经省察的人生是不值一提的
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shwsh

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做最好的自己即可,不骄不馁
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吴23894

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Be away from the superfluous care!
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A kindly girl. Like you!
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sam1125

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sometime its difficult to find a partner who's truly willing to listen and the more difficult thing is he/she really understands it, reverts in same language. Lucky u, sounds u've got one.

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