24小时热门版块排行榜    

查看: 4073  |  回复: 32
当前只显示满足指定条件的回帖,点击这里查看本话题的所有回帖

闲吟居士

木虫 (职业作家)

[交流] How to be a patient girl?

I don't know why I'm becoming a more  and more impatient girl. My mother often scolds me these days for I talk with my family with
anger and impatience. I have neglected to observe my emotions for a long time. Sometimes I argue and quarrel furiouly with my parents.
Even a trivial thing may drive me nuts.Am I not satisfactory with my present situation? But my families are not responsible for my bad mood.
They are quite curious about my job and my date, therefore, they often ask me about how they are going. I'm unwilling to talk about these
ambiguous matters before I can surely know my feelings. I feel I have no my own space to deal with my life and I hope I can handle these
things on my own. But they never know I will talk when I need a talk. I often joke with my mother that I'm in climacteric period and ask her
to leave me alone. I am conscious enough to take control of my mood and I realize that I have to adjust myself to a positive and active channel.
I'm supposed to accept the impatient part of me. This is the imperfect me. I guess some naughty hormones in my body are so troublesome
that they want to challenge my reasoning ability. I have confidence to overcome them. I'm trying to be soft to love all those around me.
回复此楼

» 本帖已获得的红花(最新10朵)

» 猜你喜欢

朝着心中的光前进!
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖

qudanqi

铜虫 (初入文坛)

There is a generation gap between you and your family, so try to understand with each other and find a chance to talk from he-art. It is very common that parents would care about their children's job, mate and future. Do not be upset or defensive. If you want to have more personal space, just tell them you can handle your life by yourself. But do tell them some progress and nev-er hesitate to seek help from them. They are you family after all.
24楼2018-02-11 08:29:56
已阅   回复此楼   关注TA 给TA发消息 送TA红花 TA的回帖
相关版块跳转 我要订阅楼主 闲吟居士 的主题更新
最具人气热帖推荐 [查看全部] 作者 回/看 最后发表
[硕博家园] 博士复试,申请成绩复核,有机会翻盘吗? +8 长海二声笑 2024-05-21 13/650 2024-05-22 01:07 by dking22
[考博] 想被211以上高校课题组接收 +10 风起沧澜 2024-05-16 12/600 2024-05-21 23:07 by 爱7号的me
[基金申请] 肿瘤口 +5 hml2091 2024-05-20 5/250 2024-05-21 22:48 by Liu131415
[找工作] 浙江的高校现在门槛都这么高吗 +12 dadqweq_qw 2024-05-16 12/600 2024-05-21 22:30 by foolishmani
[基金申请] 河北省基金 +12 3101251516 2024-05-16 19/950 2024-05-21 21:20 by zhang5657
[基金申请] 国自然等 85+3 胖虎 2024-05-21 11/550 2024-05-21 18:23 by 胖虎
[博后之家] 山东大学(青岛)“天然药物生物智造”课题组 招聘“博士后”(年薪20.4-55.6万元) +3 第二种态度 2024-05-18 6/300 2024-05-21 15:37 by 安小樱
[考博] 换导师 +14 是柠檬呀! 2024-05-18 27/1350 2024-05-21 13:27 by 是柠檬呀!
[论文投稿] SENSORS AND ACTUATORS B-CHEMICAL 15+4 荣小撇 2024-05-20 4/200 2024-05-21 10:07 by ca0yan9
[考博] 双非博士还是985科研助理,然后再读博 +6 lxdatj123 2024-05-18 13/650 2024-05-21 08:19 by lxdatj123
[教师之家] 白天不懂夜的黑,90后青椒与60后老板 +5 zylfront 2024-05-18 6/300 2024-05-21 07:32 by 战狼?
[基金申请] 申请基金代表性成果 +14 lancet0903 2024-05-17 20/1000 2024-05-21 00:23 by dxcharlary
[教师之家] 青椒的未来在哪里? +17 sxhuabin 2024-05-15 18/900 2024-05-20 22:55 by 瞬息宇宙
[找工作] 绍兴文理学院怎么样?有没有坑啊 +9 zhaojiang427 2024-05-16 23/1150 2024-05-20 21:44 by 高敖曹
[硕博家园] 海外博士,国内博后找工作求建议 +8 905452934 2024-05-16 22/1100 2024-05-20 21:42 by littlezl
[教师之家] 普通高校有编制讲师与211高校无编制专职科研岗,应该怎么选 +19 1137025804 2024-05-15 25/1250 2024-05-20 13:32 by Zhangsanxi
[考博] 【2025 申博】材料或者冶金工程 +4 枫落孤城 2024-05-19 5/250 2024-05-20 10:52 by 枫落孤城
[考博] 考博跨专业可以跨多远 +5 竹外。。。 2024-05-18 6/300 2024-05-19 21:51 by 摩天思瑞
[论文投稿] 推荐转投( transfer pending)是否有用? 50+3 lily5289 2024-05-17 7/350 2024-05-19 15:11 by wanghuawei
[留学DIY] 求助:医生想润 +7 safrina 2024-05-15 7/350 2024-05-17 18:50 by 卡皮吧啦123
信息提示
请填处理意见