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I quitted my job in Shenzhen last May. I taught in a public primary school and  I performed well in the past three years. All the relatives
are very proud of me because I can get a decent job and get a satisfactory salary. However,  the pain and the anxiety I suffered can hardly
been understood. They felt sorry for me and thought I was a silly girl. But I don't regret having made such a decision. Staying far away from
home really makes me homesick, specially when I'm sick with no relatives or friends around. I've experienced cough with tears all the dark
night and go to the hospital with a dizzy head. I feel I'm the most miserable girl in the world. Why do I still work in a high-paced society
and consume my life and energy? When I got my master's degree, I have dreamed of a colorful life in a super city and a happy experience in
a famous enterprise or school. After I had a bad cold, I've realized the importance of health and family. I noticed that if I spent time
acompanying my parents or teaching in my pace, I will enjoy more happiness. To some degree,  my character and attitudes towards life
have changed and i want to pursue another lifestyle.
           I am impatient to grow with the big city and I have been tired of being solitary. I returened home, a small city that I ever complained
about its education, transportation and public welfare. This winter is a cold one and I'm tring to accustom it. The freezing cold weather seems
to remind me of the cruelty of the reality and encourage me to explore my new life. Anyway, I'm on the way and I will keep going.
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when we say English Cafe, no one is thinking about what the heck it is, why you call this corner English Cafe. Maybe we should just call it English Corner.  I did not know the reason as well, maybe just something related to English. But I am now thinking about something else when reading your post, having my morning coffee, and trying to leave a comment at the bottom. I am always having Cappuccino with some banana cakes, but i have to say, it is way much better to have some coffee with some writtings in English Cafe like yours. I will buy you a coffee someday when i see u, and you, share more stories to make it tastes better.
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2楼: Originally posted by molmolsong at 2018-02-08 08:25:05
when we say English Cafe, no one is thinking about what the heck it is, why you call this corner English Cafe. Maybe we should just call it English Corner.  I did not know the reason as well, maybe j ...

You are very nice. Have a good day.

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molmolsong: 金币+1, nice comments 2018-02-08 11:54:51
Home is our big harbor, and it's so important to me. So as to you girl...Blss you

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Now I met a question like yours. Go to big city and have a higher salary or Stay in a western city near my hometown and have a comfortable life. Sometime I cannot help thinking that I can develop better and have a broad horizen in bigger city.
I should work harder and harder when I am young. However, a special idea often appeared in my brain when I am hesitate.
Go to western city and have a relaxing job, have a afternoon tea with family members, and take a short trip in somewhere...
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Life  is intoxicated as same as the top wine because both of them make people dizzy and unable to control!
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6楼: Originally posted by q420658749jc at 2018-02-08 12:22:01
Now I met a question like yours. Go to big city and have a higher salary or Stay in a western city near my hometown and have a comfortable life. Sometime I cannot help thinking that I can develop bet ...

As we all know, everything has a cost. If you're eager to see the big world, just make a specific plan and keep it going. But you are supposed to be responsible
for your own decison because a big city doesn't guarantee you a bright future unless you are an elite or you have enough talents to compete. Big cities attract thousands of young men to contribute their wisdom and energy. You need to work diligently to realize your dream, that's too say, you really have to sacrifice a lot of time and passion and suffer from anxiety and solitude. After several years of struggle, you may be proud of your work performance or you may be disappointed to your life quality. Then do you have plan B to withdraw from your situation. Do you have qualifications to get another satisfactory job in your hometown? Do you have enough confidence to get accustomed to the lifestyle there? You have to take many factors into consideration and you will hesitate to leave the big city. I leave Shenzhen because I can get a teaching position easily and I go on working in my familiar area. Even now in my hometown, my workmates speak highly of my performance. Obviously, now I still have a problem here. I need to find a boyfriend. SEE? That's another cost of working far away from home: You have few opportunities to know some nice guys. So wish you good luck.
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7楼: Originally posted by 闲吟居士 at 2018-02-08 12:51:28
As we all know, everything has a cost. If you're eager to see the big world, just make a specific plan and keep it going. But you are supposed to be responsible
for your own decison because a big  ...

As you say, I have a job in western city, and have a chance to opportunity to go to further studies》
I will consider your point carefully. What's more, your English writing is perfect. And do you have a good way to improve writing?
Sincerely, you will find your Mr. Right sooner or later.
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8楼: Originally posted by q420658749jc at 2018-02-08 23:27:05
As you say, I have a job in western city, and have a chance to opportunity to go to further studies》
I will consider your point carefully. What's more, your English writing is perfect. And do you  ...

I like English and I keep learning all the time.Actually, I have a long way to go. Good luck

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9楼: Originally posted by 闲吟居士 at 2018-02-08 23:48:32
I like English and I keep learning all the time.Actually, I have a long way to go. Good luck
...


Roads to Roman. May be I need to work harder to get one transportation.
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