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lilyopen

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[交流] Naked resignation

My friend chose naked resignation, she left a few days ago and still lots of colleagues feel suprised and hard to believe.After she announced her decision,quite a lot of peope tried to persuaded her but failed including me;
But as a friend,I knew more,she is 30 years old,as a single,she had worked in this compay for more than three years after getting master degree,the company is just so so,I have to say.As a freshman,I heared gossips about her before I joined the company for her age.
I have to say it's really hard to find a boyfriend when you are working in a small city,and to be a leftover woman is not very difficult,maybe I will be the next one.
She knew it's really hard to find a better job after quitting for this awkward age,but feeling desperate after three years' waiting and searching,she left,single and tired.We suffer from the pressure,job,marriage and so on.But sometimes we just have to stop and find ourselves,because we are confused.
I don't know,maybe I will be the next to choose naked resignation and travel around  the country.After being lonely for several years,are you still waiting in hope and believing something or someone besides youself?
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丹丹03: 回帖置顶 2015-06-05 12:31:59
丹丹03: 金币+8, Thanks for your opinion 2015-06-05 12:33:21
I want to say, I don't have the courage to resign my job before I find a new one, Not only because I am a man, but I don't want to take the risk of being jobless for a long time, I am not living in a rich family, I have to work to support myself, I think, your colleague should be abundant somehow, at least she doesn't have financial problem, otherwise she will not choose naked-resignation.

Whether she resigned her job for the failure of marriage, I am not sure, but this phenomena has been becoming a society problem, in my life, I meet several girls that still have not find a boyfriend, even they have reached their marriage age, some of them are even over 35 years old. Actually they don't look ugly, they are pretty, smart, have a stable work, earn enough money, but they still end up single.

Sometimes I tried to analyze the problem, in my opinion, these girls stay a very awkward position, they don't want to find someone who earned less than them, but mans who earned much more than them want to find some girls with good-looking, finally these girls become leftover, with time going, they will lose interests to find someone any more, they think they can live a very good life even without a man's support.
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丹丹03: 金币+1, Right 2015-06-04 21:54:34
I don't think it's a bad thing to do if it makes you feel better, unless you have serious financial problems of course
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3楼: Originally posted by k966sc at 2015-06-04 21:51:52
I don't think it's a bad thing to do if it makes you feel better, unless you have serious financial problems of course

Yes,I couldn't agree with you more

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it's a brave and wise move,nothing is more important than your happiness.

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5楼: Originally posted by Alex_wx06 at 2015-06-04 22:59:32
it's a brave and wise move,nothing is more important than your happiness.

We still keep in touch,she is planning to Tibet.

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7楼: Originally posted by sxf525 at 2015-06-05 08:55:39
I want to say, I don't have the courage to resign my job before I find a new one, Not only because I am a man, but I don't want to take the risk of being jobless for a long time, I am not living in a ...

I will be faced with the awkward situation,working in a small city.After graduation,I'm 26 and now,still single.
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8楼: Originally posted by lilyopen at 2015-06-05 09:31:46
I will be faced with the awkward situation,working in a small city.After graduation,I'm 26 and now,still single....

Don't be sad so early, sometimes love comes silently...., don't care too much about your work place, small city is good for you to live, I am also living in a small city, but I like it.
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丹丹03: 金币+1, Everyone has different opinions and views. 2015-06-05 21:31:50
I think the most important thing to a single girl is to find a boyfriend. They should not consider about  the job .when you have  a boyfriend , whatever job  you get is good.

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