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丹丹03

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[交流] Think positive thoughts every day




If your life feels like it is lacking the power that you want and the motivation that you need, sometimes all you have to do is shift your point of view.



By training your thoughts to concentrate on the bright side of things, you are more likely to have the incentive to follow through on your goals. You are less likely to be held back by negative ideas that might limit your performance.



Your life can be enhanced, and your happiness enriched, when you choose to change your perspective. Don't leave your future to chance, or wait for things to get better mysteriously on their own. You must go in the direction of your hopes and aspirations. Begin to build your confidence, and work through problems rather than avoid them. Remember that power is not necessarily control over situations, but the ability to deal with whatever comes your way.



Always believe that good things are possible, and remeber that mistake can be lessons that lead to discoveries. Take your fear and transform it into trust; learn to rise above anxiety and doubt. Turn your "worry hours" into "productive hours". Take the energy that you have wasted and direct it toward every worthwhile effort that you can be involved in. You will see beautiful things happen when you allow yourself to experience the joys of life.You will find happiness when you adopt positive thinking into your daily routine and make it an important part of your world.


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丹丹03: 金币+10 2015-06-03 17:44:50
小小蜂王: 金币+8, ESEPI+1, nice~~ 2015-06-03 17:54:22
As a psychological student, telling the truth, I am afraid that your words are very hard to touch people because they are within reaching of everyone. Like a sentence goes that even if we know golden rules of everything(e.g., no smoking, living positively, getting up early, going to bed early etc) we find it very hard to do just as idioms say. Because each of us, is very delicate and fragile to break down easily, has many limitations.
So, living happily is just a ideal state of people, whereas living painfully is a constant state of people. So we have to live with that. Let me tell you several facts that are definite for everyone but are very tough for human to accept. Death is ultimate belonging for everyone. Because after birth, we are steadily going toward aging and death. It is only matter of time. But many people refuse to accept this fact that death is part of our existence. If we avoid death, we cannot live either. Therefore, thinking positively seems silent in answering the question of existence of human and smooth pain of losing a relative.
Another fact is loneliness. Many people think getting married is to find a company to share one's sorrow and delight. However, many times, we will find our spouse still can not help us for everything. Let alone sometimes  when we can not be understood by them, being confused with that why cannot him or her just feel what we are feeling, experience our emotion and understand our situation. And franking speaking, even if we erase distinction of gender, everyone, as being solitary on earth. are doomed to be alone. Because in the inner heart of ourselves, no one truly knows. Our parents usually cannot witness our funerals and maybe our spouse could left us behind, our children having their own kids, sacrificing themselves just like we do. We might be better off keeping a cat or something to accompany us.
We need a strong ego, instead of thinking those naive faith which are helpless in both situations of extreme nor normal.
在自己没有翅膀的肩上,背负了真实和梦想。
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inthenorth

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I am sorry, but there are some spelling errors. e.g. viiew in red

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it's amazing that i can understand what you whan to express.
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2楼: Originally posted by inthenorth at 2015-05-30 18:34:50
I am sorry, but there are some spelling errors. e.g. viiew in red

Thanks for your reminding, I will edit it
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