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[交流] I love a boy,but…

He is …a little stubborn,and he said he got too much burdens on his shoulders .he doesn't want to talk about any relationship till he finishes his PHD.
I don't know what or how I should do.All I konw is if I just let him go,I will regret .
Maybe just like the movie says,"he is not that into you".

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kongkeke: 金币+1, i think you are right 2014-11-13 15:49:58
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Do not find a boy that does't care about you to be your boyfriend, even if you like him ,or even love him. Otherwise, I guarantee that you will regret. Good luck
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00waterh: ESEPI+1, nice analysis 2014-11-13 13:49:17
00waterh: 金币+10, it is rediculous to say having girlfriend will affect the phd study. 2014-11-13 13:51:22
Well, I think you should use the word"like" instead of "love", so far you guys haven't been involved in a relationship yet, how come you say you love him?

Also, I don't think that boy is mature enough, since love doesn't need a right time or a best time. When he is ready, maybe he is over 30 or even older. At that time, he will have a stable job, he may own a house. But he is no longer at 20s, his best time is gone.

I think we should all learn how to balance study and life. Study is super important, that's correct! But it's not everything! we still need to live in the world, we are all human beings and we also need love.

So find the boy who knows how to love and how to live , good luck!
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00waterh: 金币+4, thanks for ur good advice 2014-11-16 12:38:59
Forgive my honest,
In my opinion,he did not refuse you as soon as possible,because you are his seconed choice ,maybe the third choice
I think you can let him know you are so attractive.

For example:
1.You can find a male freind who are handsome and smart.
2.your male friend simulate pursue you and you must let him know it.
3. you can also learn some skill from “Yue hui zhuan jia” ，which is a TV program that help young to find anther.
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19楼: Originally posted by rocxiao1226 at 2014-11-13 11:59:11
Well, I think you should use the word"like" instead of "love", so far you guys haven't been involved in a relationship yet, how come you say you love him?

Also, I don't think t ...

cannot agree any more:we should search for the balance between life and working!

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00waterh: 金币+2, yes, PHD is just a excuse. 2014-11-13 07:10:40
Let him know he can get  his PHD and a girl friend at the same time.
Or you can ask him directly if it's possible if he is not taking his PHD.
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00waterh: 金币+2, maybe she should give him more time. 2014-11-13 07:11:36
how long have you known each other, maybe you can let him know that you have many good virtues and you love him very much. Good luck to you.
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13楼: Originally posted by relive012429 at 2014-11-12 17:03:36
how long have you known each other, maybe you can let him know that you have many good virtues and you love him very much. Good luck to you.

my love seems like a problem to him,which he is now unwilling to face .

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12楼: Originally posted by michael_ye at 2014-11-12 16:42:16
Let him know he can get  his PHD and a girl friend at the same time.
Or you can ask him directly if it's possible if he is not taking his PHD.

he just wants his PHD now.

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00waterh: 金币+2, an excuse, i agree with you. 2014-11-13 07:12:39
I think the key problem is that if he will truly love you.
If he doesn't love you, the phD degree just as an excuse
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14楼: Originally posted by 马丽小小 at 2014-11-12 17:08:33
my love seems like a problem to him,which he is now unwilling to face .
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all right, hope everything goes well with you
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19楼: Originally posted by rocxiao1226 at 2014-11-13 11:59:11
Well, I think you should use the word"like" instead of "love", so far you guys haven't been involved in a relationship yet, how come you say you love him?

Also, I don't think t ...

thank you , but i know the feeling of love...

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00waterh: 金币+1 2014-11-14 12:11:51
00waterh: there is no relationship between study and love 2014-11-14 12:13:20
00waterh: there is no relationship between study and love 2014-11-14 12:13:34
The PHD is just a excuse, there is no construction between study and love, let it go, and you will glad that made this decision when you find your truly Mr.right  in the future.
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00waterh: 金币+1, courage,yes 2014-11-16 12:34:45
i love a girl, i didn't do anything but told her i will take care of  you forever,so you konw ,i succeed! good luck!
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00waterh: 金币+1, yes,ask him whether i could be your girlfriend. 2014-11-17 05:01:41
Maybe you should ask him:If I couldn`t be your girlfriend before your graduation,may I have a reservation for your rest time in your life.I saw this word from a fiction called "he yi sheng xiao mo"
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24楼: Originally posted by NOCOLOK at 2014-11-14 13:44:27
Forgive my honest,
In my opinion,he did not refuse you as soon as possible,because you are his seconed choice ,maybe the third choice
I think you can let him know you are so attractive.

For exam ...

1.honesty
2.friend
thank you any way
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love is asking to be loved. the relationship between you is not love. so,do what you wanna do

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good luck！

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A dream holds his mind, a family keeps his heart, but where are you?
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00waterh: 金币+1, let it go 2014-12-02 22:29:13
In my opinion , that is just a excuse.
If a boy has some feeling about you, never can he refuse and find the excuse.
so just let it go and find a person who really care aboue you.
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19楼: Originally posted by rocxiao1226 at 2014-11-13 11:59:11
Well, I think you should use the word"like" instead of "love", so far you guys haven't been involved in a relationship yet, how come you say you love him?

Also, I don't think t ...

What a perceptual person you are! The real life is more complicated than the movie, everyone has their different problems which need them to choose the answer!  
Do you know what nice guys are?  Maybe everyone has their own answers.
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00waterh: 金币+1, communication is important 2014-12-02 22:28:15
I think you should express your inner world to him and it's really not easy to.encounter a person you love. if he refuse，just let him go.

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Just do it or you will regret.Good luck!
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you love him then love.
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00waterh: 金币+2, that is a possible 2014-12-02 22:26:55
From his word,i think that he have no idea about his future. All he want is to make his life stable,and then he can focus on his marriage. At least,he take this thing seriously,doesn't he?      (All above is individual ideal)
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36楼: Originally posted by 知丶守 at 2014-12-02 20:37:35
From his word,i think that he have no idea about his future. All he want is to make his life stable,and then he can focus on his marriage. At least,he take this thing seriously,doesn't he?      (All  ...

yes.you are right.but i am just afraid of me not being the one to accompany him to walk into the sun set.

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