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hello ,everyboby. It is my first day to write down something in here,sharing something with you ...its my own feeling .i just want to say my experience loudly to my friends of xiaomuchong.recently, i always confused by a question.wife and concubine,which is more important to me ? haha,Dont misunderstand the meaning . i compared studying to my wife,and entertainment to my concubine. everytime i play, i am always hold up the view that i was so sorry to my wife.i i must responsible to my wife. i cant betray my wife. my heart tell me to go back to the classroom . however, i am just sad inside. none action .however, when i am together with my wife, the situation is different. sometimes ,i feel annoyance . for example ,i am not in the learning state or i cant find my worth when i work hardly. but most of time ,i can say l love wife rather than like wife .do you understand this feel? like real husband and wife ...haha ,i guess you konw...but the little question is that i will miss my concubine when i leave my classroom .hah,,,chassroom like me and my wife" s home. sometimes,i cannt help myself to miss my concubine,and want to take her home . the most important thing is that i cant balance the time between my wife and my concubine .why wife and concubine cant coexist ? i cant control myslef.hha,,,just sometimes....in a words,i guess i might be a good husband .but ,are you sure i am a faithful husband? i dont konw..So ,if must husband miss concubine in the real world or my image ? can you give me some advice? thank you for reading my little story .due to my my english is not excellent , this article take my a couple of hours to finish. if you are convenient , hoping someone can help me amend this article.thank you very much.    d31b0ef41bd5ad6e5e9c030b80cb39dbb7fd3ced.jpg [ Last edited by fungixx on 2014-3-30 at 13:08 ] |
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"All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy." It is ture that you need to entertain and relax yourself after a long time study. Proper amusement and alleviation of the stress will benefit both your physical and mental conditions. These will further provide you a high efficiency when you come back to the work. But I do not think it is applicable to the struggle between the wife and the concubine. Firstly, if you get no cocubine, you are surely out of the dilemma. Secondly, though the young people nowadays especially those in a high position or keep a adaptable manner to different girls will live in different ways from ours, I do believe that you will be well respected as a good husband if you can treat your wife not merely as a companion, but an intimate friend and love her like you do to a cocubine and a daughter. And in doing the previous and enduring happiness and love will soon fall on your shoulder. |
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tuqin2575: 金币+3, Yeah. The most important thing is to deal with them in a proper way. 2014-04-01 17:57:21
tuqin2575: 金币+3, Yeah. The most important thing is to deal with them in a proper way. 2014-04-01 17:57:21
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Hi ,my dear friend ,you made a very interesting metaphor ,wife is your responsibility and concubine makes you happy ,so I think both of them are important to you ,concubine is innocent ,she need your love too .the only thing you should do is to arrange your time in a proper way .wife is main ,concubine is vice .Besides ,I want to say the first part of your writing is pretty good ,I like .come on ,girl . [ 发自手机版 http://muchong.com/3g ] |
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tuqin2575: 金币+2, I cannot agree with you more. 2014-04-01 17:59:29
tuqin2575: 金币+2, I cannot agree with you more. 2014-04-01 17:59:29
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i don't think concubine will make you happy all the time. after some time, she will demand everything which you had given to your wife. there are no free lunch! you will be exhausted, finally. well-treating your wife, you will have good reward! this is my two cents. [ 发自小木虫客户端 ] |
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tuqin2575: 金币+2, :) 2014-04-01 17:55:24
tuqin2575: 金币+2, :) 2014-04-01 17:55:24
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wow....i want to say that your pertinent view make me several minutes to complete.though understand the most, i think keep silent will be a good manner.haha....please dont mind...in a word ,thank you your analysis,hoping stroll here frequently.... |
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From a girl's viewpoint, to some extent u'r regarded a good husband with a sense of guilty. Do you really feel happy now? Can you handle the dilemma without hurting your wife or the third party? Can' t you find another way to escape from the working stress? Ask yourslef and then make the choice. It is better for the doer to undo what he has done. |
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