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00waterh

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[交流] what makes the Spring festival being the summit of blind date?

The Spring festival,As the biggest celebrating day of reunion, has been developing the most appropriate chance for young people to find their other half. i did not realize such phenomenon when i was young.as time goes by, along with my money which was treated as red envelop（Fen Zi Qian） gradually slip out of my pocket to two couples'pocket during this period, i slowly caught the thing that they all were arranged to blind date last spring festival.As my thoughts goes a little deep, i found an amazing funny truth that large amount of young people in my place go to blind date at the spring festival. why do people in my place prefer making their blind date during spring festival ?

people in my place are tend to go out for living,for the weak industry at hometown and more job opportunity in some developed cities. thanks to the economy-developing first policy, companies and factories spare no effort to make money, to command more hours work, to give less days off. the result was that young people go home near the spring festival eve, and then before the lantern's day they have to go back to work. therefore making mass of them only several days to find a wife or a husband. some years ago, i thought this only happened to those who are low educated,until my best friend found a young girl 5 years younger than him this very spring festival.

people go out for a high education, and then fortunately get a high salary job,but with no money to buy the house in big city.looking around your friends, how many of them finally find a job in the city they dreamed of? and how many of them create a warm home there? without a wide relationship net, many of my friends go back home for their career.

all this lead to another thing,that is, more and more young lady has been left. they come back home for blind date during spring festival last year, unsatisfied, went back to work after lantern's festival.they come back again for blind mate on spring festival this year, unsatisfied, went back to work before lantern's day.next year, it continue...

hey, dude, say something about this...

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Lopemann: 金币+1, Yes 2014-02-23 15:54:26
Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-02-23 15:54:29
The pressure coming from their parents may push them to do this.

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00waterh: 回帖置顶 2014-02-24 09:53:12
00waterh: 金币+4, i just cry in the corner of wall 2014-02-24 09:56:31
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00waterh: 回帖置顶 2014-02-25 21:53:41
00waterh: 金币+3, this is a good answer~ 2014-02-25 21:54:06
spring festival is the time that relatives get together to talk about the gone year and plan for the future. when we grow mature, finding the right one to get married absolutely will be an important thing for the whole family. under the pressure of our parents and our relatives, using spring festival as blind date goes naturally.
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Lopemann

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More and more young ladies are left, which is good for us! :p
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00waterh: 金币+2, yeah, you are right~ 2014-02-22 15:24:24
"what makes" maybe more correct,man.
"the Spring festival being the summit of blind date" b/c bachelors r busy all year round except the Spring festival

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00waterh

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at first i though" what makes" would be better, but maybe there are more than one reason
anyway, thank you very much, i'll change it
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Lopemann: 金币+1, You experienced it before, right? 2014-02-22 17:00:14
Maybe , the spring festival is a long holiday which just provide parents chaces to push the young ones hurry with their marriage and  job .

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4楼: Originally posted by BOCHEMISTRY at 2014-02-22 14:55:59
Maybe , the spring festival is a long holiday which just provide parents chaces to push the young ones hurry with their marriage and  job .

as a teacher you can say it's a long holiday
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5楼: Originally posted by 00waterh at 2014-02-22 15:24:58
as a teacher you can say it's a long holiday...

7 days is also  relatively long

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6楼: Originally posted by BOCHEMISTRY at 2014-02-22 15:32:55
7 days is also  relatively long
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8楼: Originally posted by st200403 at 2014-02-22 21:32:23
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