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Never try to change anyone，changes only ever work if the person wants to change. forcing it on them will make them miserable，it will make you unhappy as well，as you can not live with a miserable person and be happy yourself. so，just respect what they are，and accept it. the same to yourself，respect and accept who you are. be nice to yourself，for it won't be too long before you leave this world～ [ 发自手机版 http://muchong.com/3g ] |
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fungixx: 金币+2, you are a perfect man~ :D:D 2014-01-16 14:34:48
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fungixx: 金币+2, you are a perfect man~ :D:D 2014-01-16 14:34:48
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as i know, some can be changed. maybe i know what you say about change. we always expect our lovers to be more perfect.so we want them to change for us. but change is hard and need time,so just give more time to them and ourselves. |
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Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-01-16 21:42:46
Lopemann: 金币+5, Respect and understanding. 2014-01-16 21:43:07
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Lopemann: 金币+5, Respect and understanding. 2014-01-16 21:43:07
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yes，almost everyone think their lovers should have some changes in some aspects，and think it will do good to them，however，before their lovers changed or gave up changing，most of them will have quarrels about it，even after their lovers have changed，problems can also rise up，their lovers may say my love for you is more than yours，I have changed so much for you～I don't think I can stand these words～besides，I aslo want my friends and lovers to become better，I will tell them my hope，not ask them to change or try to take actions to change them，if they think my words make sense or they love me enough，they will change by themselves，if not，I will respect and accept what they are or go away～ [ 发自手机版 http://muchong.com/3g ] |
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Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-01-19 18:46:11
Lopemann: 金币+1, Good thinking. 2014-01-19 18:46:22
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Lopemann: 金币+1, Good thinking. 2014-01-19 18:46:22
| I never try to change someone ,including my boyfriend.but I find that sometimes we are changing others or been changed .maybe when we argue with someone and we put forward our requirment or dissatisfied ,we are trying to change another. |
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