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honestly,   i am  very positive,  smiling all the time  may be the  special featuer  of my  character. i think that love smiling can  always make good first impression. but  i am a very sensitive person sometimes.  it is so contradictory about humans  character. if i konw someone likes me or  is interested in me , i will be a little unseay when i meet him. it is so strange,  i don not like him at all, but i will think of something about him  when i am free. and  iwant to show better me to him in my heart. am i a peacockish person . i doublt  that  is this weak in humans Characters  or just for me.
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7楼: Originally posted by befair at 2013-10-30 07:39:13
Indeed it appears to be puzzling when beling liked by someone one does not really like. In general, everyone wishes to be liked, no matter what kind of person oneself is. Starting from here differenc ...

you are right . everyone wishes to be liked. in general, being liked by someone  always makes me feel good and  superior     . it reveals that  i am  charming in some degree.   but i feel that i think too much,  as long as i get this king of information, i will pay more attention on him. autually,  i konw this is not good feeling or  loving  at all. so annoying it is. thank you so much for your advice, i am very touched that someone has concerned about my complain.
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if  i know  someone  likes me but I  do not like him,when I  meet the one,I may also feel uneasy,uncomfortable...I  may still try to show my kindness.

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that's the commonness in human characters I think

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curton: 金币+12, I may still try to show my kindness. 2013-10-30 09:08:01
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Indeed it appears to be puzzling when beling liked by someone one does not really like. In general, everyone wishes to be liked, no matter what kind of person oneself is. Starting from here differences begin to merge, some people feel happy when being liked, even by those one does not particularly like; while others feel rather embarrassed instead in the same situation. I am not a psychologist or something that way, but feel  this might have to do with our personality in general: superiority or inferiority. The former can be seen e.g. someone is most often the popular guy attracting everbody's attention and being respected (liked); while the latter can be shown in a person who is hardly noticed in public and hence seldom respected (or liked). Thus the former will tend to feel embarrased when being liked by someone he/she does not like, while the latter would feel really happy. Since we feel in our life sometimes superior in one way and at one time, inferior another, we'd demonstrate different behaviour patterns.
Just some reflections

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