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投票标题: Do you believe in LDL? And why? (单选)

  • I am a male and I never believe the LDL would succeed.
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  • I am a male and I think the LDL would succeed.
    11 (17.7%)
  • I am a male and I believe the LDL would succeed.
    10 (16.1%)
  • I am a male, at first I thought the LDL would succeed. But now I don’t believe
    6 (9.7%)
  • I am a female and I never believe the LDL would succeed.
    3 (4.8%)
  • I am a female and I think the LDL would succeed.
    6 (9.7%)
  • I am a female and I believe the LDL would succeed.
    14 (22.6%)
  • I am a female, at first I thought the LDL would succeed. But now I don’t believ
    2 (3.2%)
  • I don’t know whether I am a male/ female or not, but I believe the LDL would su
    3 (4.8%)
  • I don’t know whether I am a male/female or not, but I don’t believe the LDL wo
    1 (1.6%)
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00waterh

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[交流] Do you believe in LDL? And why?

LDL means long distance love, which is the same meaning as ‘Yi Di Lian’. The LDL is becoming more and more common in our life as the development of information and transportation. Along with the LDL, many problems are emerging. To meet with each other is a big trouble and a long distance trip is really an exhausted in body and mind, though the train is running more fast than before. And after several days of sweet intimacy, the one must have to leave for the work or other things. During this period of time, if the unhappy things happen, it’s possible that the relationship will be end. And according to the long distance, the less chance to stay together, the feeling will fade away little by little. If putting the big family into consideration, many people think the long distance love are really not worthy of it. So many people would rather to choose a one near her city instead.

But not all people think the long distance love is impossible. Maybe bitter at first, but sweet at end.  Some said there was difficult at first, but the result would be exciting. And some said that we could see the true love from the long distance love. And some proved it, saying we had five years of the LDL, and now we baby is six months old. You may not believe it, some people like the LDL, and they said the distance crate beauty and make their relationship more solid. So it seems that everything is nothing when people want to have a long distance love.

Thinking about myself and the thing happened around me. Now I don’t believe the long distance love, but that does not represent that I will not believe it. I think if I meet the right one, and she want to accompany me to the end of my life. Why not?  The long distance love easily start from university, and many will end up their relationship because of the stress from job or their family. It’s hard to continue a long distance love, but when the days pass it will be one of the most wonderful loves. Bless for those LDL lovers, you are the one who need to be respected.


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winter_north

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00waterh: 金币+3, i believe in love , but i don't believe in LDL. 2013-10-07 08:17:33
00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-10-07 08:31:41
At first sight, I think you may the structure of some kinds of chemicals. You know, some cheicals are D, at the same time, they also have an L structure. They co-exist.

As far as this LDL is concerned, I think whether if will succeed or not heavily depend on the two persons involved, and how much time they have spent together.

I still believe in love.
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00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-10-07 08:29:49
00waterh: 金币+2, you give us the confidence of long distance love,thank u. 2013-10-07 08:31:29
If you are single , think twice about a long-distance relationship.
For me , I have chosen three LDL . Now my husband and I are still in love,and have a cute bay .
In fact, I never choose someone in the same city , I don't know why?
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00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-10-07 23:05:09
I'm in the LDL. ,,, I will say nothing on this. It just depends.
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00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-10-07 23:05:03
well,I do believe in LDL because I'm in it.

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00waterh: 金币+5, yeah, the problem is how to keep the relationship in the long distance love. 2013-10-07 23:06:43
00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-10-07 23:06:45
Whether you believe it or not, some people succeeded, but more failed. I think the relationship in LDL base on something real. Like the rate lovers visit each other, the time they communicate with the other, their family background and so forth, and these factors should be strong enough to hold two people together. A great many elements involved in this kinda relationship and if there were even one of them goes wrong, the lovers would break up. So my argument is that LDL does exist and there are people go through it successfully, but it's hard to maintain the relationship for people in LDL

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00waterh: 金币+1, yes,it depends on whether we would meet the one we want~great 2013-10-08 10:29:44
00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-10-08 10:29:50
i am so embarrassed to tell u that i have no experice of LDL,and i think whether u believe it or not depends on if  u meet the mr/mrs right.but if the lovers get married, LDL is not good to keep the harmony of the family.
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00waterh: 金币+2, i am kinda agree with u~ 2013-10-08 11:05:05
00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-10-08 11:05:12
LDL was bullshit,and i never think two heart Will be closer without  knowing and cares from each other in a long distance,you're not by my side when i need you,i can hear your voice but can't see your face,so i don't think LDL has more meaning,maybe it's more like a cruelty game。

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00waterh: 金币+4, ooh, so sweet, you boyfriend is a nice boy~ 2013-10-09 10:45:40
00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-10-09 10:46:56
Believe or not, that depends for me. When I graduated from university, I chose to further my education. At that time I truly trust my exboyfriend, even decided to come back home for him after graduation. But unexpected things happened in less than one year. He cheated me with a coworker girl. But now, my BF gives up several chances to have a good job to stay with me. Even now, he is unemployed. He dosen't believe in LDL, but I will believe in him.
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00waterh: 金币+3, how sweet ! give my best wishes to you two~ 2013-10-09 21:51:38
00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-10-09 21:51:40
I am in long distance love for more than one years, and we still in love now. And I am accustomed to LDL now.   My girl friend will graduate from collage show, and we will get together and work in a same city.
she will marry me, and we will have a happy family.
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00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-11-18 08:06:36
It's definitely a good topic and deserves more discussion and attention
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kongkeke: 金币+3, i do donot know what you mean when you talk about LDM, LDF OR LDH, BUT as far as i know, it depent on your love foundation. long distance does not mean never see each other, it is just they donot see each other frenquently~~~ 2013-11-18 08:13:30
00waterh: 金币+4, may i have a guess, LDM means long distance marriage,LDF means long distance family or home. as you said,what about the physical side, the affection, passion, and desire? you must be missing someone,i suppose. 2013-11-18 08:18:45
00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-11-18 08:19:30
As far as I am concerned LDL should not make much a difference than anything else, as the key word is the second L. In this respect of spirituality space or distance should not be the only constraints. Well, so far so good, but what about the physical side, the affection, passion and desire? It seems to be a continuous function/spectrum ranging from the pure platonic to the pure bodily where distance does mean a lot.

Naturally if one refers to LDM, that is another issue, worse, if it is LDF or LDH (you know what I mean ...)
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00waterh: 金币+3, but I stiill believe LDL can be realized as long as both sides have the strong belief 2013-11-19 21:05:26
00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-11-21 16:42:17
I had LDL before,for two years.At the beginning ,we kept touch with each other closely.and naturally I fell in love with this feeling ,waited for him anxiously even every minite,but he suspended the relationship,maybe he found he had never loved me .Now I jump out of the pain,but I stiill believe LDL can be realized as long as both sides have the strong belief,once one gives up,love is over.
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00waterh: 金币+3, too young, too naive. right? 2013-11-21 11:22:36
00waterh: 回帖置顶 2013-11-21 16:42:13
when u find the one who is a real man or woman,i mean they all have the strong will and a considerable mind .the distance is no longer an obstacle.but unfortunately,most lovers cannot reach that level . they r too young too simple.
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00waterh: 金币+3, thanks for your wish,and i am sure you'll find your Mr.Right very soon. 2013-12-03 14:46:35
Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2013-12-22 15:28:31
I believe love, whether it is long distance or not. True love should endure loneliness.
But in fact, I failed in LDL once. It started with romance and happiness and ended quickly, with nothing left.
At that time, He was in Africa and I was in Beijing. It is impossible to see him, even in the webcam.
Although I failed, I wish all people in LDL all well and happy.
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Lopemann: 金币+1, It's covalent bond I guess. 2014-01-24 13:06:43
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60楼: Originally posted by 00waterh at 2013-12-18 21:31:50
may i ask you why? because it seems that not so many girls like LDL....

love that can stand distance no doubt has the strongest bond between the two individuals.
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Lopemann: 金币+2, hope everything is fine. 2014-01-24 13:07:25
Lopemann: 回帖置顶 2014-01-24 13:07:28
I have no idea. 4000 km is a long or short distance? That used to be the distance existed between my wife and me.
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5楼: Originally posted by 大脚行天下 at 2013-10-07 08:27:17
If you are single , think twice about a long-distance relationship.
For me , I have chosen three LDL . Now my husband and I are still in love,and have a cute bay .
In fact, I never choose someone i ...

Great! Love matters.
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21楼: Originally posted by MegumiIsh at 2013-10-08 08:38:38
my only problem is looking for a girlfriend...

you gonna find her, come on
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i think it likes ghost, if you believe it, then it is there....vice versa  
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00waterh

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7楼: Originally posted by fungixx at 2013-10-07 10:23:21
i think it likes ghost, if you believe it, then it is there....vice versa  

i don't believe it
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In my opinion,it is brave to waiting for a man who will spend the whole with me.
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00waterh

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9楼: Originally posted by jq0811 at 2013-10-07 16:43:11
In my opinion,it is brave to waiting for a man who will spend the whole with me.

yes,it is especially hard for a girl to wait for a boy.
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