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钦行天下

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[交流] How To Get Along with Olders?

Long time no write in here.
Since the beginning of this semester, I am so busy with the robot designing. Because there is a match in next month. I am confident about that. And there  is one happy thing I want to share with all of you that I got big progess this night. I am so excited as to I can't be asleep now. Maybe you think I am a optimistic college student. But you never know the confused life I lived.
My grandfather is 78 years old now. When he is enough young, he is a so efficient and wise man. But nobody believe he is a little muddled now. My three uncles are not in home but only my families staying with him together. You know, my parents treat him so well. But he always believe the other sons or daughters are his good children. Of course he treats me well I see. But I can't stay with his attitude to my parents. My father has little knowledge and my mother has poor legs. So my family is not so rich. They are living hard life for many years. Recent years, we changed better than before. But he changes older. And he often loses his bad temper easily in frond of my parents. I can't bear anyone who doesn't respect my parents. If others I will beat it at once. But he is my grandfather, he has poor health. he is also the people I love. I don't know what should I do. Although I am at school now, I often worry about my family. I want to know if everything is okay.
And after the mid-autumn holiday, the National day is coming. Although there are 7 days off, I don't hove enough time to stay with them because of the robot match.
I need your help. Have you ever dealed with these cases? And how do you get it. And how should I do?
The night is so quiet. Good night everybody. See you
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wj6993

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There is similar sutuation in my family, i try to chang it ,but  i find it's not easy.
When people is old, he usually confound right and wrong, but he can't realize it.  
Most of  time people like to complain with who stay with him, the sons who are not at home,he miss   them so much  and only remember their best.
It is human nature in some sense, so don't worry about them
anyway,they are father and son.
16楼2013-09-25 09:12:50
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2楼2013-09-24 00:01:30
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3楼2013-09-24 00:13:02
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chxmright

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00waterh: 金币+2, i think maybe grandpa need more love 2013-09-24 20:08:20
give him call often...
every family has its case,so it is hard to say.what you have to do is lubricating i think.
cong for ur big breakthrough...where does the robot game held?

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4楼2013-09-24 00:49:00
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略懂2009

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00waterh: 金币+2, i miss my grandpa 2013-09-24 20:09:08
I have ever dealt with the same case. My grandfather thought my uncle was his good son. But now my grandfather had passed away two years. I miss him. So, I think that you can talk with him more time possibly, and, tell him how you and your parents love him.
5楼2013-09-24 10:58:58
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钦行天下

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3楼: Originally posted by yahuhaha at 2013-09-24 00:13:02
Congrats

Thanks
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6楼2013-09-24 18:37:53
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钦行天下

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4楼: Originally posted by chxmright at 2013-09-24 00:49:00
give him call often...
every family has its case,so it is hard to say.what you have to do is lubricating i think.
cong for ur big breakthrough...where does the robot game held?
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It was held in Huangshan last year. I have no idea about this year.
Thanks for your advice
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7楼2013-09-24 18:39:16
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钦行天下

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5楼: Originally posted by 略懂2009 at 2013-09-24 10:58:58
I have ever dealt with the same case. My grandfather thought my uncle was his good son. But now my grandfather had passed away two years. I miss him. So, I think that you can talk with him more time  ...

That is really a hard case.
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8楼2013-09-24 18:40:10
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mactai

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I think your case is general in many family. It is very important to deal with the relationship among relatives, especially the ones you care. Your grandpa surely love you as well as your parents. Though he always complain about something, what you can do is behave yourself and try to be successful.
9楼2013-09-24 20:32:57
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舒子318

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Say something they like, like you are so young, you look very good......haha.
10楼2013-09-24 21:08:30
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