[交流] Are you dreamer,a man who follow your dream?

After watching the movie RUDY this afternoon, I think i am moved by the man Rudy and his teammates. The feelings touched me so deep, which makes me decide to write something about it. First i want to talk about RUDY. The movie was based on the true story. it said a boy called Rudy liked American football very much by the influence of his father. And i don’t know why, but he loved the team of University of Notre Dame so much that he desired to be one of them. Though he had a beautiful dream, he did not well at study. And if you want to play for Notre Dame, you must enter this famous university. Obviously, Rudy failed and he became a worker where his father worked for all the time. A dreamer never gives up his dream, so did Rudy. He could not be happier when he received a gift which was a team uniform of Notre Dame from his best friend Peter at his birthday. Maybe Rudy would just be a dreamer, but things always change without our expectation. Rudy’s best friend Peter died from an incident happened in their factory. The death of Peter hit him badly, which made Rudy left the factory to follow his dream. And you know, as most of movies goes, Rudy worked hard and suffered a lot, at the end he succeed. The movie is so great that my eyes were wet several times for it.

I haven’t seen a movie for a long time, until today I saw our expert tuqin’s thread i thought maybe a movie would make me relax, since i could not concentrated my mind on study and sleep for couple of days. But after finishing it, I find there are so many things in my heart that i can’t help to say them out. There was a scene in the movie that Rudy’s girlfriend took Rudy to see a house, at that time Rudy was still a worker and saved some money. His girlfriend said we took this house, and we got married for a stable life, but Rudy said sorry. And there was a scene in the church when people prayed for Peter who was Rudy’s best friend and dead. Rudy said sorry to Peter’s girlfriend and cried out of the church. Rudy’s girlfriend followed him. At the gate of the church, Rudy told his girl he would go to University of Notre Dame for his dream. His girlfriend said’ if you have to go, you have to go alone’. Then Rudy went alone at that night. My eyes were watery by the scene. Because I think if I were Rudy, I would not have such courage to make such decision to leave my girl. Maybe I just want to live a stable life and have a happy family. Once I also have my dream, but now I have lost it, because I think my dream is not realistic. Rudy, to him, nobody thought his dream would come true, including his family. It seemed that everyone said he had no cells for football. They said he was not born for football, not born for football. But he insisted on. In order to have the chance to enter the University, he said i could study 20 hours one day. Indeed, we could see it that Rudy was not a man for football, because he was that small kind, weak boy. People could understand it from the first sight of him. But he said’ I’ll do whatever it takes’. And yeah, he did it. His spirit moved his teammates and he did it.   

What I want to say is most of us have surrendered to our life,. Maybe we had a dream when we were young, but now to ask ourselves where our dream is, where is it?  We are struggling to have a job, to have a wife, to have a family. But what we lost? Who dare to lose his job or his family for his dream? I am afraid I can’t take risk for it. Dream, it’s just a word.