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bo123456

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[交流] fierce fight or cold war?

there is no doubt that every  couple of parents will quarrel  whether they quarrel occasionally or not.my parents are not an exception.but they quarrel very little,like once half year or so.
   [size=]yesterday i witnessed the war  between my parents.i am so frightened that i  really wanna tear the page of today and skip over that point.when mama was like"i just do this at that time ,what can u do?"then papa was like "i just forbid you to do this" .words were always like this .and the situation  grew worse and worse.sooner they began throwing things about and attcking with hands.so hard to describe.....such big damage.
my brother and i cried and shouted to them to stop and reasoned things out but all in vain .they just ignore us.i felt a sense of desperate.how i hoped they had prefered cold war.fortuately, my brother's simple words made mama burst into laughing.what if they prefer cold war?no no they may be colder and colder to each other.
      dear worms ,are you afraid  when they have a war?if so,what extent are you scared to ?do you play a role in relieving it?if so ,what would you do?and the key point ,do you prefer cold war or "hot" fight?which one do you think is better?share with us.
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2楼2013-08-18 00:38:13
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kongkeke: 金币+2, i think it is a smart way. 2013-08-18 17:17:37
When my parents have a fight with each other, we just leave them alone. What’s they most want is someone can judge them and be side with one. So most of time, we escape and let they calm down natually.

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4楼2013-08-18 09:39:24
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zusezhu602

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i am in cold war now.

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5楼2013-08-18 14:15:45
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shuixian2009: 金币+5, my parents hardly fight. I am a lucky kid. 2013-08-21 09:46:34
my father has to work far away from home to earn money so that my brother and i can go to university. so i seldom see my parent fighting, though once they are together, they do fight. most of the time, it is just my mom shouted at my father, haa, i have been used to it. now as we are growing older and parents growing older, normally they just complain each other to us kids, but no fighting any more. they are acting like kids, we have to say good words to cheer them up and make them happy. haa.
err, to sum up, i do not want fight from parent, no matter cold war, or fiece fight, it is terrible to kids.
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6楼2013-08-18 16:51:46
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shuixian2009: 金币+2, cold war and fight are unavoidable 2013-08-21 09:50:32
it is difficult to stay happy and bright all the time.it is necessary to let off steam to embrace the future.cold war couldn't play that part but only to accumulate the unsatisfaction which would lead to a worse result
7楼2013-08-20 16:27:50
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shuixian2009: 金币+2, esay come, easy go. 2013-08-21 09:51:00
esay come, easy go. If they quarreled violently, it may get past faster. From this perspective, it might be preferred that they did so. Cold war really freezes everything--and for a long time, no better than this come-and-go violence.
8楼2013-08-21 00:48:48
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shuixian2009

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in my memory, my parents hardly fight. In fact cold war and quarrel  are unavoidable. But the unhappy time is  kind of come-and-go something。
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9楼2013-08-21 09:54:03
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apollo911

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I prefer hot fight, just argument, not really fight. Cold war always scared me more, and the result always turned to be much worst. i.g. Divorcement, abandon, etc. Quarreling is a good way to vent emotions.
10楼2013-08-21 10:40:20
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