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ruocha_jcmx

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[交流] How we face the way we had already chosen

Every time i met a chioce, i would be trapped into it and effected by subtle factors.  Now i find i dont like what i chose. i know regret isnt helpful but i cant help myself to think about it. whereyou want to go is much important than your hard work.  i work hard, but i always step into chioce chaos.

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don't trouble yourself so much now, you can try to accept the life you have had and find the good thing every day. changing your attitude of the life, maybe you will find something different! Good luck with you!!
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Direction is more important than hardworking
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Direction is more important
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God help u make a good choice

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ruocha_jcmx(金币+1): 谢谢参与
persist or change!
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Think carefully before action。
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Make up your mind and persist going your way.Good luck!
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i don't know what i want
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risqueen

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There have many chooses in our life. What you have to is calm down and chose your love.
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curton: 金币+2, maybe we should persist until we have chance 2013-07-29 10:50:13
I  also have this trouble....but i will do the best for those things thst i hacve to do... so i am  alaways the best....just  relax....all is  well

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curton: 金币+4, when we choose sth, we should quit some others. i quit some better. 2013-07-29 10:49:44
So do I. I am frequently tortured by chioce chaos, least of when I entered university. I suppose that the reason for this choice difficulties and confusion may largely due to education we have accepted, coz it just forces us to do what should been done, however, rather than what you like to do. Gradually, our passion or ambition for knowing who I am and finding my own voice have decreased,thus leading to our trouble for decision making.

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i have the same trouble like you. and now, i am still regret about what i have chosen.

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ruocha_jcmx

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25楼: Originally posted by risqueen at 2013-07-25 18:12:46
There have many chooses in our life. What you have to is calm down and chose your love.

i already calm down. but now maybe i should persist until i have chance

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27楼: Originally posted by 蓝秋之坠 at 2013-07-25 18:42:57
So do I. I am frequently tortured by chioce chaos, least of when I entered university. I suppose that the reason for this choice difficulties and confusion may largely due to education we have accept ...

yeah. when we choose sth, we should quit some others. i quit some better.

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come on ! You will be successuful !
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risqueen

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You kown your promble. That is great. I think you could do best when you face choose.
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come on! friend! you always are the best!
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So many choices we will face in our life!
Just do it if you make any choice, everybody will get a good life.
35楼2013-07-26 18:01:08
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Only natural human behaviour so do not worry

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i face a choice now,

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It seems that most of the girls will trapped in making choices,and so,the existence of man do make sence
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curton: 金币+4, maybe we should persist until we have chance, The only thing we can do is to do our best once we have made a choice or decisiion and believe the choice you have made is always the best. 2013-07-29 10:50:53
In my opinion, your trouble actually lies in your attitude towards the chioce you have made. The reason you are always regretful is that you are never satisfied with the results you have obtained and always thivk if I made anther choice it would be better. However, it is not always ture. No one has the ability to predict the future. The only thing we can do is to do our best once we have made a choice or decisiion and believe the choice you have made is always the best.
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First you should identify whether you can give up this choice and make another one.
If you can, then do it.
If you cannot, just your hard to do it, because you have the responsibility to finish it well.
Be a resposible person, whatever for your choice or yourself.
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It is our own choice. If you choose it, just do it. There are words saying that regret is also a beautiful thing.
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ruocha_jcmx

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41楼: Originally posted by 286345701 at 2013-07-27 21:44:56
don't trouble yourself so much now, you can try to accept the life you have had and find the good thing every day. changing your attitude of the life, maybe you will find something different! Good lu ...

thanks, i often wander a lot.

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ruocha_jcmx

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42楼: Originally posted by 求知者001 at 2013-07-27 22:11:34
First you should identify whether you can give up this choice and make another one.
If you can, then do it.
If you cannot, just your hard to do it, because you have the responsibility to finish it  ...

now i cant give up it because i have no other better chioces. everytimethe opportunity slipped, my reason, external reason.

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43楼: Originally posted by chenlu318 at 2013-07-28 14:12:12
It is our own choice. If you choose it, just do it. There are words saying that regret is also a beautiful thing.

yes, i should do that now.

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ruocha_jcmx

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41楼: Originally posted by 286345701 at 2013-07-27 21:44:56
don't trouble yourself so much now, you can try to accept the life you have had and find the good thing every day. changing your attitude of the life, maybe you will find something different! Good lu ...

i would try it. thank you

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In our life, everyone has their own difficulties, if you want to get yourself happy, the key is  adjust your mentality .
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wenlanjiayou

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In fact,I have the same decision-making trouble .I am a good girl in some way.Because my parents would decide every thing for me.I never say no.

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48楼: Originally posted by 伊人天边 at 2013-07-29 09:51:25
In our life, everyone has their own difficulties, if you want to get yourself happy, the key is  adjust your mentality .

yes, u r definitely right. i often magnify my difficulties and shorten others' difficulties. it's bad...
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22楼: Originally posted by davidcsn at 2013-07-25 14:50:46 Think carefully before action。

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