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Publisher:   Avon
Number Of Pages:   320
Publication Date:   1976-04-01
Sales Rank:   279932
ISBN / ASIN:   038000772X
EAN:   9780380007721
Binding:   Mass Market Paperback
Manufacturer:   Avon
Studio:   Avon
Average Rating:   4



"Happy childhood" notwithstanding, most of us are living out the NOT OK feelings of a defenseless CHILD wholly dependent on OK others for stroking and care. By the third year of life, says Dr. Harris, most of us have made the unconscious decision I'M NOT OK-YOU'RE OK. This negative Life Position, shared by successful and unsuccessful people alike, contaminates our rational ADULT potential -- leaving us vulnerable to the inappropriate, emotional reactions of our CHILD and the uncritically learned behavior programmed into our PARENT.

In personal Transactions, NOT OK people resort to harmful withdrawal, rituals, activities, pastimes, and games for getting needed strokes while avoiding painful intimacy with people they see as OK.

Dr. Thomas A. Harris's pioneering work in Transactional Analysis has had a fundamental impact on our understanding of interpersonal behavior. In showing us how to make the conscious decision I'M OK-YOU'RE OK, he has helped millions of despairing people find the freedom to change, to liberate their ADULT effectiveness, and to achieve joyful intimacy with the people in their lives.



Review:
I'm OK--You're OK is OK

Learning about the critical parent and the nurturing parent were helpful concepts. The rest of the book was just OK.



Review:
I;m ok-You're Ok

This book was ship fast and in great shape, it very interesting
how as a child one is train to think from every word or action our
parents do.

Thank you for your prompt service in shipping your orders.




Review:
Being OK

Thomas Harris' book is on my top five list of books dealing with how to live a full and complete life. In an age when self-esteem is a major problem for so many people Harris has given a useful, easily understood, and applied solution. In this book he talks of the four options for our life stance, and then develops in a very convincing way why I'm OK-You're OK is the most reasonable, rational choice. In my counseling practice spanning 35 years this was the book I most frequently recommended.

Bob Pavelsky, Ph.D.

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