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[交流] it is not so clear between right and wrong

we do not know it that much so we always go into an extreme way.
i always thought if it is not right, it has to be wrong; if it is not true, then it is false; if it is a yes, then no is not the answer. but it turns out it do not have to be this way, it is not always so easy to tell and distinguish.
i always thought love is quite easy. if you love him and he loves u back, then you will be together. the outside world will not take an efffection. however, it is not the routh. maybe he loves you , but not that much, he wants something else more, then he persue it than you, how can we say he is wrong. he just gave up onething to get another, what he did is totally what people would do. no one can judge it. even though you get hurt. you feel abondoned, but it is only a beautiful mistake happens when we are young. time went through, everything just turned into memories. nice or not, just memories.
what i want to say is that you should not blame or complaint your ex-girl or boy, they just choose a life they want, if u feel grieve, just cry when you are alone, but it is not the fault of your ex.

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you are quite right! love can't be judged by right or wrong and it is rather complicated. you can't just blame your exgirlfriend or boyfriend by just right or wrong. however, everyone who determined to build up a special relationship with a girl/boy should be very careful at the initial stages. it is a waste of time and money to everyone if the ralationship breaks. more importantly, the broken love will hurt others' feelings and it might lead to difficulty to build up his/her confidence to start a new relationship.