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zhujianhu

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shuixian2009: 金币+1, He will give the best wishes 2012-12-02 22:04:57
it doesn't matter,when you are married, he also needn't do that.
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shuixian2009: 金币+3, You are helpful。Thanks for your good suggestion。\\(^o^)/~ 2012-12-02 22:09:53
Change that red packet into a gift...tell him that you were somewhere that not possible to attend such a party and how you regret about it, congrate the couple and ask them about their thinking of future planning or something else to smooth the atmosphere.
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curton: 金币+7, All the above seems a little trivial, but they are necessay in China which emphasize traditional courtesies. 2012-12-03 21:05:14
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-12-07 13:48:33
I also didn't meet such situation before. In some cases, your friend or his/her partner will be unsatisfied with what you have done, so it's reasonable for you to consider the consequence. If it's a good friend to you, maybe you can buy some gift for the  new couple with the red packet together, usually a explanation and apology are necessary. All the above seems a little trivial, but they are necessay in China which emphasize traditional courtesies.
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lfqiang0116

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3楼: Originally posted by tangtaigang at 2012-12-02 01:22:13
I didn't meet this situation,But I think if it is a good friend,he should not caring.You could buy a nice gift for him.

Thanks for your idea.
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lfqiang0116

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4楼: Originally posted by lghmouse at 2012-12-02 09:21:21
Tell him the truth and appologize.
By the way,give the red poket

I need certain courage to do it.
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curton: 金币+2, situation will come over 2012-12-03 21:06:05
I met that situation last year,I gave my apology, also the red packet,that all.

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curton: 金币+2, red packets 2012-12-03 21:06:22
I had meet once . When they have a baby I well give they a big  red packets
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shuixian2009: 金币+2, Yeah. Everyone love gifts 2012-12-04 12:46:40
Although I have never met this situation, I think if he is one of your good friend,you should give him a present.
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curton: 金币+2, maybe u should give a apology, say something like U got drunk and forgot 2012-12-07 13:48:48
Sorry for U, maybe u should give a apology, say something like U got drunk and forgot. Then u should give  a red envelope, bless u will not forget again.
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