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How to Bridge the Generation Gap?
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The generation gap is unavoidable in almost every family, which brings about a number of conflicts in a family. In my opinion, to limit the bad effects of the generation gap, each family should use the following three methods: First of all, it is important that family members discuss openly about their pleasures or sadness in childhood in family gatherings. This activity does not only create a close relationship but also help build up understanding among all members. For instance, once children are aware that their grandparents and even their parents did not have a good upbringing during their hard childhood, they will stop complaining about the previous generations’ obsoleteness. In the meantime, once old people realize young people are nurtured in a new modern way, it is easy for them to be tolerant of young people’s new habits or hobbies. Secondly, people of each generation should not develop a very high feeling about themselves. In order to do that, they should not think that they are the only right people in their family because each person has his or her own limitations. Teenagers would realize that their parents have to struggle with pain to support them financially, and they would stop rebelling their strictness. Parents would realize that their children’s new style does no harm to their studies and stop imposing their own unsuitable standards on their children. Finally, the generation gap and its bad effects can be limited if all members cooperate to build up a close-knit family relationship and a harmonious atmosphere in which they are open and tolerant of each other. I strongly believe that each family, by doing that, can enjoy a cozy atmosphere with minimum interference by the generation gap.  16.jpg |
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curton: 金币+4, Helpful family activities might include sports, touring, movies, to name a few 2012-10-29 10:29:43
fevol侯: 回帖置顶 2012-11-14 23:31:03
curton: 金币+4, Helpful family activities might include sports, touring, movies, to name a few 2012-10-29 10:29:43
fevol侯: 回帖置顶 2012-11-14 23:31:03
| Yes, a lot of conflicts are induced by generation gap between family members. U have very good suggestions to overcome generation gaps. I think they are useful. In my opinion, family activities are crucial to enhance relationships and understanding. Helpful family activities might include sports, touring, movies, to name a few. |
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