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2012.10.27 Deep in the night Life has never been so dull before,few friends,no lover,boring tasks.Time seems more than a wealth and it has become something that will be OK without it or not. This kind of life is not what i have expected.If there is a chance to come over again,I will never ever take a way like this.I will take more wisdom to make the decision and never be so rude and irrational that I regret for all I have done. What I has expected iis quite simple,just a good job and a sweet family.But the fact makes it so difficult and tough.Now I have to read endless papers that I also don't know what they try to say and whether they are usefull or meaningful. Days just slips away from my hands,so does my precious youth.May God gives a present to find it just a bad dream in the class of my secondary school and the warm sunshines just cast on my bleary-eyed face. |
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curton: 金币+6, Hopefully, eveything goes fine. 2012-10-28 15:58:58
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curton: 金币+6, Hopefully, eveything goes fine. 2012-10-28 15:58:58
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| If you feel bored and depressed, you may not be alone. At least I felt the same when I went to grad school. Not every body likes doing research. But again, I always wonder whether it is because of the educational system or mechanism which doesn't encourage real research allowing your enthusiasm to be released. anyway, we must find a way to adapt to this world. Try find something you think useful and give your dedication to it in your field. Hopefully, eveything goes fine. |
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curton: 金币+6, a good job and a sweet family are what all people want 2012-10-28 15:59:22
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curton: 金币+6, a good job and a sweet family are what all people want 2012-10-28 15:59:22
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a good job and a sweet family are what all people want, which is difficult though it seems to be simple. after you have finished reading endless papers , maybe you will have chance to own what you want. your precious youth should be wasted on the precious thing...after the bad dreams, you will meet the sunshine. come on |

6楼2012-10-28 12:58:57
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curton: 金币+14, Maybe it is life, the true life. 2012-10-28 15:59:35
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送鲜花一朵curton: 金币+14, Maybe it is life, the true life. 2012-10-28 15:59:35
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Most of us have the same feeling with you, boring life, fewer friends and no lover. We doubt whether the life is what we want and we think that our youth should not be like that. Maybe it is life, the true life. Youth is to search, searching for the life we really want and doing our best to realize it. Youth is to wait, waiting for the people that come across and trying to know her or him. Youth is to experience, experiencing the good thing and the bad thing and you will find that you are mature one day. Youth is to change, changing what you don't like and becoming the person you want to be. Youth is happy, sorrow, dull and intersting, no matter whatever do you feeling, you are experiencing the youth. |

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curton: 金币+7, good job and a sweet family will be promised one day 2012-10-28 16:22:07
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curton: 金币+7, good job and a sweet family will be promised one day 2012-10-28 16:22:07
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-10-28 16:22:08
Actually, a good job and a sweet family will be promised one day. Even you get a job, there may be the problems from the tasks, the promotion, or connections with the leader or the colleagues. When you get a sweet family, you have to work, you have to raise your child and give him or her a good education, you have to deal with the relations between your little family with the elder from both sides. In every stage of life, there will be times for the eyebrows to be knitted, what you have to make sure first is who you wanna be. Good luck. |

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curton: 金币+15, Now the situation is just I said before,and this is a fault I made because of my young ignorance.So this is a lesson learned by myself,and I hope it gives the young fellows as I some enlightenments 2012-10-29 10:35:35
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curton: 金币+15, Now the situation is just I said before,and this is a fault I made because of my young ignorance.So this is a lesson learned by myself,and I hope it gives the young fellows as I some enlightenments 2012-10-29 10:35:35
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-10-29 10:35:36
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In fact,every result has its own reasons,so does mine.There is a story behind all these things.Actually,I ever had a job and signed a contract for three years.Then there was a She,who also graduated this year.We have known each other for several years,and I had been loved her in my deep heart though she might not care.It was a season of graduation and everyone tried to find a good job or get a further education.We both participated in the postgraduate examinations and both failed,but she didn't find a good job due to her unknown college.Finally,I quited my job and followed her,then got adjusted a general university,thinking that time might make her fall in love with me. After such a long time,I find that things just come wrong.She has her own happiness and I come to find that maybe she is not my order ,the fact is that I just get a wrong way.Now the situation is just I said before,and this is a fault I made because of my young ignorance.So this is a lesson learned by myself,and I hope it gives the young fellows as I some enlightenments. |

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curton: only English here 2012-10-28 15:58:32
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