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5楼: Originally posted by liqianyi1987 at 2012-09-27 16:14:33
When you will you ?...

four or five years, I think.
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11楼2012-09-27 19:53:39
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winter_north: 金币+12, ESEPI+1, Great! Tuqin, you are the best worm! 2012-09-28 04:08:39
liqianyi1987: 回帖置顶 2012-09-28 08:51:22
When you two get married or live together. Certainly you have to consider the issue of housing. You need a residence, a house for your tired hearts and bodies after daily work and over the changes in career and maybe in family with years. Especially when you wanna get a baby, other time you decide to buy some furniture, the need for your own house is urgent. And as a man, at the moment you promise a better life and royal love for your wife or wife-to-be before her parents in the wedding, you may think that you will provide her with all that you have and will get.

On the other hand, what your GF or wife really needs is not a well decorated house, a car in good price or things alike. Yes, if you make it, that's better. But the most she demands may be a shelter, a warm family, and sense of secrurity coming from you, with your love, your care.  If you get married, and the economical conditions are not good enough, you can rent, or buy a second-hand house close to where you or she work. You can make a plan together, not bear all the pressure alone. If she loves you, she'll think about it and cares for your stress.

Even if you can not afford a house in a short time by you or you two, and you'll get married within two years, you should take an active attitude before her and her parents when they talk about it. What you can do for her, how you communicate with her will be important in the old's eyes, also in your longer life between you two.

I'm an idealist and a liberalist as well. In my imagination only, my wedding can be very simple, but romantic, which i'll not write here. The love, the family or the life can be easy, why bother ourselves so much.
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12楼2012-09-27 19:58:42
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7楼: Originally posted by baixuehua at 2012-09-27 16:59:42
I am a girl. if my boyfriend can buy a house for me, I will feel happy very much, because we will own a hign life quality without  too much effort. But now, my boyfriend can't offer me the house, you ...

my  answer is the same as you !
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13楼2012-09-27 22:00:52
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shuixian2009: 金币+3, I know you are not single now and never. 2012-09-28 13:20:35
Nope!

I do not have a girlfriend, if I have one, that is a xiaosan.

And, if I were still single, and I had a girl friend, I will not, either. The house is mine, if I bought it. I will not take such a risk.
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liqianyi1987: 回帖置顶 2012-09-28 08:52:00
shuixian2009: 金币+4, I am single now. Actually I don't care about it. If I want a house I think I need to buy it myself，although it is very very difficult now. 2012-09-28 13:24:00
I have married for nearly one year. My husband don't buy house to me. But I don't care，because I know he love me, what I want is happiness rather than money, house,car etc. Maybe, some girls want a house, but if you can give her your care, your comfort, your encourage.....She is not leaving you, and will be together with you forever.
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liqianyi1987: 回帖置顶 2012-09-28 13:12:04
shuixian2009: 金币+8, So good. One day I will own my house and my family. It is my dream now. 2012-09-28 13:25:36
Not for your girlfriend, but for your family which is composed of your girlfriend and you.
One of my friends said, Buying a house is not a house but the faith in China. You will feel relieved when you have a house called family, though you have to pay the mortgage loan, especially for a woman.
But if you feel too hard for the downpayment, to say nothing of the mortgage, I think you need not buy a house now.
Just work hard and save money, salary will become more and more you know.And China will be less people and more house, I am sure you can afford your house in the near future.
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7楼: Originally posted by baixuehua at 2012-09-27 16:59:42
I am a girl. if my boyfriend can buy a house for me, I will feel happy very much, because we will own a hign life quality without  too much effort. But now, my boyfriend can't offer me the house, you ...

If my gf is as postive as you i will absolutely happy.You set a good example for all girls.

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