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winter_north: 金币+12, ESEPI+1, Great! Tuqin, you are the best worm! 2012-09-28 04:08:39
liqianyi1987: 回帖置顶 2012-09-28 08:51:22
When you two get married or live together. Certainly you have to consider the issue of housing. You need a residence, a house for your tired hearts and bodies after daily work and over the changes in career and maybe in family with years. Especially when you wanna get a baby, other time you decide to buy some furniture, the need for your own house is urgent. And as a man, at the moment you promise a better life and royal love for your wife or wife-to-be before her parents in the wedding, you may think that you will provide her with all that you have and will get.
On the other hand, what your GF or wife really needs is not a well decorated house, a car in good price or things alike. Yes, if you make it, that's better. But the most she demands may be a shelter, a warm family, and sense of secrurity coming from you, with your love, your care. If you get married, and the economical conditions are not good enough, you can rent, or buy a second-hand house close to where you or she work. You can make a plan together, not bear all the pressure alone. If she loves you, she'll think about it and cares for your stress.
Even if you can not afford a house in a short time by you or you two, and you'll get married within two years, you should take an active attitude before her and her parents when they talk about it. What you can do for her, how you communicate with her will be important in the old's eyes, also in your longer life between you two.
I'm an idealist and a liberalist as well. In my imagination only, my wedding can be very simple, but romantic, which i'll not write here. The love, the family or the life can be easy, why bother ourselves so much. |
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