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If she or he always asked for money from you, what would you do?
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Hi eveyone, when we are adult, and have a girl friend or a boy friend is a very normal thing for us. When we are all students, for most of us we cant make enough money for ourselves, but for our daily life, we must consume some money, but at some times we havent enough for us to wast, so asked some money from our girl or boy friend is ok I think. But for some people they always want to get the money from he \ her girl or boy friend, I think its an abnormal thing, and also I think if the person can believable?  \What your opinion on it?  But for the married person, if the 2 person both can make some money to maintain the usual daily life at present, if they made a plan to waste money they can live a happy life, but if one person have some bad habit to waste much money , and they only can live a bad life. And the person alway cant hear what else said. So the person will always asked money from her \he hunzbend \ wife. How the other person can do, give her \he money or not? How can you make the person realise the mistake that he\her has made? Or if he\ her have no error at all? Could you please share your opinion with us?  PS: Its different for the man and the woman? I dont know if its really different for the relationships or married person? |
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curton: 回帖置顶 2012-09-23 15:56:31
curton: 金币+10, ESEPI+1, you share a good idea, and we can have a same plan for one thing... 2012-09-23 15:58:10
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I think there may be some differences in the relationship between the BF and GF, and that between a married couple. Also the situations in a couple and normal friends will differ. For BF and GF, concerning the common expenses, there may be four types: AA, both equal most of the time, but not designed; AB, the boy pays the more, the girl less, which is the most porpular, I think; A, most of the cost is from the pocket of the boy; in contrary, it's B. These four types are applicable for different people. It's hard to say which one is the best. But to borrow some money from the other part, it's difficult for a boy to say out. If he does, just satisfy him. If he borrows from you time to time, you can give some suggestions from the perspective of his love. A considerate girl in need is always cute. For the boy, if she needs some money and it's acceptable for you, you may for sure say yes. But it's better for you to teach her the financing not just let her squander on new clothes or be frugal all the season. You need to make a plan together. For the married couple, more communication is better. The husband works outside and earns for the whole family while the wife is responsible for the daily expense. Both requires good capabilities. When the wife comes to the career, she becomes busier. How to spend the money, amd which part should be spent more needs a good schedule. Among these, trust and mutual love and understanding should come first. But for the friends, only a bit for daily use is not a problem. After all, borrowing too often keeps a good friend away. Whereas, when he turns to you for a big plan, buying big items and promising you when he will give the money back, you can lend him that you can. Everyone may be faced the same things.  [ Last edited by tuqin2575 on 2012-9-23 at 14:02 ] |
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