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hk_kong36

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Get myself refreshed

Maybe I should let myself alone to calm myself down, to get refreshed, to reawaken myself and let me be myself, if the truth is true that I am alone and have no one to rely or even to be helpful to me. Yes, that is really the truth which is cruel but no sorry.

I feel nothing and nonsense with those self-indulgent nights which is a great waste that makes me ashamed. Moreover surfing on the net looking for others’ accompany will be no help, it is time to make a decision to give up something very unimportant. No pains, no gains. Being lonely and completely confined to one person’ world would be exhausting, however it should be helpful to me if I want to face the music and do something from my inner most heart.

It can be hard to practice my plan, but is not impossible, it can be true if I make it true, I am willing to make it true, and I am a tough girl in some way. Since I am now alone and have nothing else to do, then let me have a try, never say die.

In my daily life, I can be on time to make the room habitable. Neatness really counts in our life, efforts and time would be no waste, since it is part of your life. We live in the world because we lead a life.

Now that the other side of this relationship has given up, then insistence of this connection will make no sense. So please make it clear that that kind of relation is over, nothing left to be good for you. Water to flow downwards, man struggles upwards. The only thing I need to do is to do the things which are good to me, only these would make sense, others are nonsense and should be given up.

Make clear of your needs and demands, if you can, do something to get them reached if you think they are reasonable and will do good to you. You know you ought to keep awake always, need to learn to reawaken yourself constantly, ‘ not by mechanical aids but by infinite expectations of the future’, of course you at first must understand your expected future then you can imagine about that. Yeah, that is it. To lead a brilliant life can be easy, if you can make the temptations of the outside world invalid to you and it can be easy if you wish.

There are many days every year, try to do something meaningful during your lifetime, and never indulge your life away or you will be sorry without any chance to call back your opportunity. Youth comes and goes in a flash, you’d better try hard to make it fulfilling or time can be ruthless to you.

Self-discipline is very pivotal in a reasonable life or in a successful career, I am thirsty for breaking out of the small cage to breathe fresh air.
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rchiuctw

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curton: 回帖置顶 2012-09-07 17:36:42
curton: 金币+10, we always saw good points and hide away weak points 2012-09-07 17:36:58
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7楼: Originally posted by hk_kong36 at 2012-09-06 19:08:07
yeah, some kind emotion of love...

Free your heart from the kind of sadness.

No big deal as if he is the dedicated one, he will be your guardian angel and won't let you down. But if he is not, then forget it.

But I think it is a good time for you to review the whole situation.
Why people will naturally feel happy when first met, and first image induced such a warm sweet feeling for you to accept each other ?
And we give it a term "honeymoon" the word honeymoon is not necessary the piece of holiday spent right after marriage, it also mean the period of time people enjoy at beginning of relationship.

Answer to the question is: we always saw good points and hide away weak points, but as time goes on, weak points become significant and we loose temper on each other, it does hurt pretty much and everytime it happens, another step head towards breakup.

Essence of keeping a good relationship between two people is patience tolerate, tell him what is in your mind, ask him to respect you the way same like you respect him. Don't even think he belongs to you so you can control his thinking, and ask him not to do the same, if you did all I told you above, it will probably end up both of you will join one of the religions.
零星落索,一贫如洗,两袖清风,三餐不继,四壁徒空,五内如焚,六神无主,七窍生烟,八方受敌,九死一生,十分危殆,百感交集,千夫所指,万念俱灰
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curton: 金币+3, Try your best 2012-09-07 17:37:12
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-09-07 17:37:13
Everyone will suffer different obstacles in the life!
You also be maturated after experiencing many things.
Try your best, you can struggle and back to track!

Nothing is gonna chance my love for you!
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小木虫: 沙发+1,金币+0.5, 恭喜抢个沙发,再给个红包
2楼2012-09-06 10:47:16
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小木虫: 金币+0.2, 抢了个小板凳,给个红包
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rchiuctw

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Why is that ? relationship broken up ?
零星落索,一贫如洗,两袖清风,三餐不继,四壁徒空,五内如焚,六神无主,七窍生烟,八方受敌,九死一生,十分危殆,百感交集,千夫所指,万念俱灰
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fungixx: 金币+2, me too~ i hate my place, it makes me hard to breathe~ 2012-09-07 08:00:31
I am thirsty for breaking out of the small cage to breathe fresh air.
Why not?
Go to the nature.
也无风雨也无晴。
5楼2012-09-06 12:18:43
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rchiuctw

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5楼: Originally posted by Kangzhenhua at 2012-09-06 12:18:43
I am thirsty for breaking out of the small cage to breathe fresh air.
Why not?
Go to the nature.

You have been captured and locked up ?
Heaven and hell exists under same atmosphere, it depends on how you look at it. So free your mind and let go all unhappiness, motivate self to fight against difficulties ahead of us, beat it or get beaten.
零星落索,一贫如洗,两袖清风,三餐不继,四壁徒空,五内如焚,六神无主,七窍生烟,八方受敌,九死一生,十分危殆,百感交集,千夫所指,万念俱灰
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4楼: Originally posted by rchiuctw at 2012-09-06 11:59:03
Why is that ? relationship broken up ?

yeah, some kind emotion of love
thanks,聆听花开的声音,需要的是沉淀
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Go to the nature.
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5楼: Originally posted by Kangzhenhua at 2012-09-06 12:18:43
I am thirsty for breaking out of the small cage to breathe fresh air.
Why not?
Go to the nature.

ye
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8楼: Originally posted by curton at 2012-09-06 20:36:54
Go to the nature.

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