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I will go my BF's home this weekend, do you have some experience? Please give me some advice! thanks!!!!  |
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fungixx: 金币+8, really nice ideas,yeah you really have much experience,i am sure she will benefit much from these,haha,best wishes to her and thanks very much 2012-08-21 15:39:01
fungixx: 回帖置顶 2012-08-21 15:39:13
fungixx: ESEPI+1, sorry,it deserves more,i just forgot 2012-08-21 15:40:32
fungixx: 金币+8, really nice ideas,yeah you really have much experience,i am sure she will benefit much from these,haha,best wishes to her and thanks very much 2012-08-21 15:39:01
fungixx: 回帖置顶 2012-08-21 15:39:13
fungixx: ESEPI+1, sorry,it deserves more,i just forgot 2012-08-21 15:40:32
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Firstly, congratulations! I can also remember the first time I went to my BF'S home, certainly I am nervous before I went. I think this is very natural. We all want to be very excellent in front of them. But something unknow will be happened. So take it easy and make yourself. They will very love you! But if there are some thing such as different custom, please respect them and obey it, haha, but this phenomena seldome happened. Secondly, dress neatly and generous. I think you BF's can give you some suggestions, he will know quitely what their parents like the dress style.  At last, take some thing what your mother in law like best in her daily life, this also can ask your BF, I think this is very favorable to you, you know this is the first time you go to their family, if you can buy the thing they like best, they will be very happy. And can give them the best impression. I dont know these whether or not can give you some reference. But I will give my best wishes to you! Good luck!  |
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fungixx: 金币+3, congratulation,you got a chance to let them know how excellent you are,good luck 2012-08-21 15:45:05
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fungixx: 金币+3, congratulation,you got a chance to let them know how excellent you are,good luck 2012-08-21 15:45:05
fungixx: 回帖置顶 2012-08-21 15:45:12
Firstly, congratulations! I will experience this period soon, my boyfriend said he would soon take me home to meet his mother. When I heard this, I was nervous because I was not well prepared. Best wishes to you, you can do it well  |
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curton: 回帖置顶 2012-08-28 17:21:44
curton: 金币+6, good advice..... 2012-08-28 17:21:57
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-08-28 17:21:44
curton: 金币+6, good advice..... 2012-08-28 17:21:57
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You are not obligated to an interview, and therefore no fear. But on the other hand, you should be as polite as possible, to show you care about the seniors in BF's family, keep a smiling face, and help to distribute dinning table and help to clean after the meal. In order to make things happen that way, you should choose proper clean dressing to ease your work and yet comfortable. Slight cosmetics show that your ability to match your BF to certain ranking during public sessions. |
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glare9883: 金币+5, thanks a lot! Wish your family happiness! 2012-08-15 13:47:41
glare9883: 金币+5, thanks a lot! Wish your family happiness! 2012-08-15 13:47:41
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Now I'm sharing my experience: Firstly,relax yourself , when my gf(now she's my wife) first visited my home, she was very relaxed,due to hers "sweet mouth",my parents were very pleasure. Secondly,you can polite to introduce yourself and your family. Thirdly, you should dress up neatly and decently. I think you should not too concerned,just show up your real side. Good Luck! |
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that's a bad idea! 11楼2012-08-15 13:45:50
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winter_north: 金币+2, Lovely girls will be loved by every body. Great! 2012-08-26 15:52:23
winter_north: 金币+2, Lovely girls will be loved by every body. Great! 2012-08-26 15:52:23
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Thank you! I have back. I relaxed and did myself in his family, and his parents are kindness, I heard my BF said, his parents very love me. So you can also relax and do yourself. it will OK. GOOD luck to you!!!! |
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Sweet girl, may you happiness in your everyday life17楼2012-08-21 16:12:28
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winter_north: 金币+2, Hehe, at different stage, we should behave differently. 2012-08-26 15:53:04
winter_north: 金币+2, Hehe, at different stage, we should behave differently. 2012-08-26 15:53:04
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winter_north: 金币+4, Great advice! 2012-08-26 15:53:52
winter_north: 金币+4, Great advice! 2012-08-26 15:53:52
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When you are in love with each other,your love is filled with two individuals.But,as for marriage,you are supposed to take more people into consideration.Apparently,your BF's parents is a must! See them as your own parents, so you behave like a cork. And see them as your examiner，you are to struggle for their trust. |
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