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[交流] How do you deal with your problems?

Last week, I had taught my students "How do we deal with our problems?  ". This let me think too much. How do we deal with our problems? Maybe different people have different opinions.Today, I want to share my own ideas to everyone.      
            Rich or poor, young or old, we all have problems. And unless we deal with our problems, we can easily become unhappy. Worrying about our problems can affect how we do at study and work . It can also influence the way we behave with our families. So how do we deal with our problems? There are many ways.     
       By learning to forget
            Most of us have probably been angry with our friends, parents or teachers. Perhaps they said something you did like, or you felt they were unfair. Sometimes, people can stay angry for years about a small problem. Time goes by, and good friendships may be lost.
          When we are angry, however, we are usually the ones affected. Perhaps we have seen young children playing together. Sometimes they have disagreements and decide not to talk to each other. However, this usually does not last for long. This is an important lesson for us: we can solve a problem by learning to foeget. Forget it and keep smiling, you will gain more.
      
      By regarding problems as challenges
            Many people often complain about school, their life or our society. They might feel they have too much work to do sometimes, or think the rules are too strict and life is difficult, or sometimes the society is unfair. We must learn how to change these "problems" into "challenges". Education and work experience are both important  part of our development. As young adults, it is our duty to try our best to deal with each challenge in our education and life with the help of our teachers, parents,or even older people.      
       By thinking of something worse
            By comparing yourself to other people, you will find your problem are not so terrible.Like many books, think about Stephen Hawking, for example, a very clever scientist, who regards his many phsical problems as unimportant. He can't walk or even speak, but he has become very famous and successful.  We are probably quite heathy and smart. Let's not worry about our problems. Let's face the challenges instead.

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Justonestand: 回帖置顶 2012-08-06 16:41:41
fungixx: 金币+5, your English is very well,come here often,let us fight together 2012-08-08 19:34:16
yes , i think that you are experienced enough to deal with your own problems.i have to learn from you .Every time i was in trouble,i may become so disappointed.so  I likely missed the best time to solove the problem.I will change myself ,to be more mature,to have a big heart.....heihei , my english is also a problem for me ,and i have to deal with it first.
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Justonestand: 回帖置顶 2012-07-28 12:25:55
jie jie thx for you sharing
may be sometime the so called trouble comes from ourselves ,so i think to deal with some unnecessary problems may be we can just let it go ~~~~and relax ourselves in some case
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4楼: Originally posted by 祯嗳溢誓 at 2012-07-28 12:24:47
jie jie thx for you sharing
may be sometime the so called trouble comes from ourselves ,so i think to deal with some unnecessary problems may be we can just let it go ~~~~and relax ourselves in some ...

Ha!ha~~maybe you should keep reviewing!!xiao pengyou ,you always online!!
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5楼: Originally posted by Justonestand at 2012-07-28 12:28:30
Ha!ha~~maybe you should keep reviewing!!xiao pengyou ,you always online!!...

en en ~~~~i know what is more important for me
just on weekend sulf for a while
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