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cattimcn

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[交流] [Weekly Topic]How can we drop sth. to focus on the others?

hi, i am CatTim.

knowing how to give up the less important things in order to persist on the important ones is of great significance. but few of us are really good at it.

as a part of our nature, we all want to be successful in every thing we have, to balance well between life and work. sooner or later, we fail and begin to realize how things should be.

and there ARE some things that we should try our best to do. once you figure out what you want most and care most in your life. Be persistent on these things and never give up.

the truth is, most of us do know what we should focus on. however we can't help being distracted by the superficial things around us. before long, we find ourselves slaves of the busyness of life. therefore, we should reflect on life now and then to see how our life is going. are you staying true to what your heart is telling you?

giving up on things is not a easy work. this is especially true if we have already spent a  lot of resources on them. but holding on the wrong things means losing better opportunities. so we still should let the unimportant things go to spend resources we still have on the right things.

once we give up the superficial ones and know what to focus on. we can make a difference.

share your opinions on my article and this topic, please.

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curton: 金币+4, That's life. That's also a great pleasure in life. 2012-07-11 23:19:26
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-07-11 23:19:27
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4楼: Originally posted by xuchaofeng at 2012-07-11 14:45:24
Four years ago, in order to get together with my girlfriend (now she has become my wife) , I gave up my master degree, I do not feel regret now and I think my decision is correct.

That's life.Perhaps you gained something but at the same time you have lost something.That's always no perfect in our world.However you did not regret your choice,chose the enviable love.Congratulation to you and your virtuous wife.That's also a great pleasure in life.
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xuchaofeng

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0813010040: 金币+2, The trade-off, perhaps this is life.:hand: 2012-07-11 19:27:40
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-07-11 23:18:43
Four years ago, in order to get together with my girlfriend (now she has become my wife) , I gave up my master degree, I do not feel regret now and I think my decision is correct.
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0813010040: 金币+5, Think carefully before doing something,making the choice you would not regret.:hand: 2012-07-11 19:46:18
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-07-11 23:18:45
ahh,I could only give my opinion standing on my position for knowing little about you. To be honest,what you said is quite right and I am agree with you  of course. In my point of view,no one could avoid facing up some barriers lying on the way of our life.And just as what you said we may pay too much attention on something that is less important which leads to our confused and could not improve ourselves.Since the problem exists,we should make every effort to solve it.To make things better ,we should make a careful anlysis of the condition and then make action.Besides ,the result is not the only thing we persure ,the process is alse of vital importance.
但为君故,沉吟至今。明明如月,何时可掇。。。
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0813010040: 金币+1, I always do that in this way.I think that's really good for me.:hand: 2012-07-11 19:47:11
curton: 回帖置顶 2012-07-11 23:18:46
list all the things together in a paper, and rearrange them.
old method, but it works
Do or do not. There's no try.
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