How to chat someone up in 5 minutes when you are in an unfamiliar environment, for example, taking part in a formal party, an academic conference or in a bar, etc., where there are no people you know?
Probably you have already met such kind of situation: “There were many people chatting in a formal party /academic conference place/ bar, but you did not know any of them. When you walked in the room, you quickly glanced through the whole room and saw that every 2-3 people got together and were chatting happily. It looked only you are alone. In such environment, you will be a discordant individual if you stay alone by yourself. You will feel you are not fit in and uncomfortable.
If someone luckily did not put yourself in such kind of dilemma, please start up your imagination, I believe you can feel how awful if you are in that kind of situation.
Now, the only way to get yourself out of that situation, you must chat someone up in 5 minutes and keep the conversation going on.
Please tell us:
(1) Chatting someone up is a tricky skill. Do you have such kind of skill? If you think you have, can you take an example showing you skills?
(2) Did you have any such kind of experience? If so, please tell us how did you deal with it? If not, please tell us how will you do?
(3) How can you let other people know you want to have a talk with him/ her and be willing to chat with you?
(4) What will you do or say to start up a conversation? What kind of topic you think is proper for conversation?
(5) Are there any tips for anyone who does not have such kind of situation or experience?
(6) If you see someone moving towards you, will you actively show you are happy to talk with him/her?
It is a tough situation sometimes, but a common problem in our daily life. Please share your experience or opinions. If you have good skills in chatting up with a stranger, please share with us. If you don’t know how to chat a stranger up, please join us and learn from others.
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