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[交流] live with their families for a longer time or not

Nearly everyone lived with their parents when they were young,with joys and sorrows.After they grow up,they had to make a choice that whether to live with their parents for a longer time to enjoy the harmony of the family or be independent to leave the family the moment they become adults.

For those adults who have no income or no family of their own, namely, with their spouses, it is better for them to live with their parents longer. How could those people rent or purchase a house if they could not afford it? Don't you think it is inconvience for them to live alone? Will they feel lonely after they moving away from their parents? They once lived with their parents, enjoying the happiness of the family, if they suddenly leave their family, should they have a feeling of dispression? Take my brother as an example.After getting his bachelor degree as a bachelor, he did not find a job. In order to save money of everyday's life, he still lived with his family. Although he felt terrible of haunting a position, he had really enjoyed the time when he still live with his parents, without any feeling of lonely. And in turn, his parents encourged him every time when he failed the interview.

However,for those who has an inclination of being independent,it is wise to leave their parents as soon as possible. Most of us will get married and have our own family, so the sooner they leave their families, the better they will be independent, and know how to run the bussiness of a family together with the career well.To get a full apprehension of this point,let us take Liu Yan, a distinguished professor in Hongkong University, as a good example. The girl who was born in Beijing is genuily independent. After growing up into a adult, she went to Hongkong University to further her study, where she got PHD and married. Now she is only 33 years old, as a famous professor and a mother of 5 years old son.When a journalist asked her why she was so successful, she contributed it to the independence and underscored that it was her leaving to Hongkong the moment she became an adult that makes her more independent.

Thus, we could conclude that for those who have no job, it is wise to live with their family for a longer time, while for  others, to be independent to leave the family the moment they become adults

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I don't know who Liu Yan is. But a 33 year old professor in Hongkong University is phenomenal. Hongkong University has a system that is similar to the UK. There is only one professor in one research area, and their professors have the highest income all over the world. It is much more difficult to be a professor in Hongkong University than a professor in Tsinghua University.

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2楼: Originally posted by lxg133298 at 2012-07-06 19:46:08

you got mine
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5楼: Originally posted by wine0431 at 2012-07-06 19:48:13
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Your words impressed me very much.i will think about it.

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