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lanhui_yang

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[交流] i just want to write something here

it has been one year since i graduated from my university. now i work in a small company doing hplc experiments.life become different from the days in school.i must get up on time ,and force myself to go to work ,everyday. having things to do  makes me feel good.and i can finish dailywork timely. people around me are also very kind .but i still feel a little repulsive .i don't konw why .now i'm not positive as before .i begin to worry about future ,i think and think ,but don't know what i really want .it bothering me .i appreciate the life with a goal ,i'll make every efforts to complete it .wuwu~~~would some people kind encough to give me some advices? what can i do now ？
(my english is not good,hope you can understand )
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fungixx: 金币+4, thanks for you good advice, hope this can help her out!!! best wishes!! 2012-07-05 20:29:44
fungixx: 回帖置顶 2012-07-05 20:29:45
maybe it is your Job burnout period. most of people who have been worke a period of time such as one year or two years and so on will become upset and fell boring. this penomena is called Job burnout period. i think there is good way to change this bad situation, which is make a long plan for yourself, then do your best to make it into true step by step.
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fungixx: 金币+6, ESEPI+1, thanks for you kind advice, i think she can benefit much from your words~ thanks again!!! enjoy yourself here!!! 2012-07-05 20:31:17
fungixx: 回帖置顶 2012-07-05 20:31:19
Sorry to hear your story. Maybe we are in a similar age, and worry about the same things. It's a pity that you feel bad in company. However, in my opinions, working in companies is much better than being as researchers in schools or institutes. There're more practical jobs to finish in companies. At least, you have clear goals and you'll be well paid after finishing your jobs. Contrarily, in universities of China, research environment is not satisfying. There are so many papers, but they are worthless and far from being applied practically.
Or maybe you're worried about family issues? I have no idea about that. But family is very important and you’ll be better supported by family members whether you’re male/female.
Anyway, wish you happy again. Actually, you are much better than me and a lot of other losing people!! Think about those who are still fighting for their papers to get a master's or doctor's degrees, and there are still a lot of guy unemployed. Cheer up, my friend!
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fungixx: 金币+2, God bless you too! nice night! 2012-07-05 20:26:55
fungixx: 回帖置顶 2012-07-05 20:26:58
that's because you don't like your current work. you can try to change another work, or if your work is not busy, you can try to  continue your study. Anyway, god bless u~~
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fungixx: 金币+5, thanks for your good advice~ i am glad you finally chose what you want~ best wishes!! ! 2012-07-06 11:44:48
fungixx: 回帖置顶 2012-07-06 11:44:53
I just finish my senior high, and I choose material chemistry as my first willing. My mother said that she should pay for my life for another 10 years because chemistry is not easy to find a impress work and I prefer being a teacher in university.

Someday before, my feeling is similar to yours. I don't know what should I do not only at present but also in future. Now I feel better, because life is full of unknow, no one knows what will he be tomorrow. What we can do is let today become an amazing yesterday.

I suppose that you can take part in the postgraduate entrance exam and study futher or just do your present job well, you will absolutely find a chance to get a better job!You should believe yourself and do what you can and what you like.

Best wishes.
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fungixx: 金币+2, haha~ come on baby too! 2012-07-06 11:42:52
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First.You should ask yourself what do you want.what are you interesting in? If you dont konw ,Its very very terrible.So you must have a shor goal and a long goal .and  mak  plan for them. then do your best to make your dream to come ture.come on baby!
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born to try
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lanhui_yang(金币+1): 谢谢参与
I have no idea~！
For myself， I found today everything is a mess！
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lanhui_yang(金币+1): 谢谢参与
Get married and have a child.
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11楼2012-07-04 23:47:27
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fungixx: 金币+1, thanks for your advice!!! 2012-07-05 20:28:51
if you do  not know where your idea is ,then just do well or just do the thing you are involved
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兰妹妹zz

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that's because you don't like your current work. you can try to change another work, or if your work is not busy, you can try to  continue your study. Anyway, god bless u~~
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xuchaofeng

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As your said you are work in HPLC group, maybe change a group will make you feel better.
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if you want to have a change, change it.
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糖甜到悲伤

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your  english  really  need  to  be   improved  in  a sense。but  i  know    your  feelings
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lanhui_yang

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19楼: Originally posted by 糖甜到悲伤 at 2012-07-05 18:06:12
your  english  really  need  to  be   improved  in  a sense。but  i  know    your  feelings





haha,so i am here , in thr english cafe .
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lanhui_yang

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18楼: Originally posted by fjtony163 at 2012-07-05 15:57:39
if you want to have a change, change it.

thank you ！
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lanhui_yang

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16楼: Originally posted by 兰妹妹zz at 2012-07-05 14:46:56
that's because you don't like your current work. you can try to change another work, or if your work is not busy, you can try to  continue your study. Anyway, god bless u~~

yeah ，maybe that is .i must plan for the future.but my current job is not good for me ,as a woman .
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lanhui_yang

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fungixx: 金币+1, you are warmly welcome in English cafe~ i am sure you can make much progress if you try to write something here at your convenience!!! good luck and enjoy yourself here!!! 2012-07-05 20:34:58
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15楼: Originally posted by 兰妹妹zz at 2012-07-05 14:42:59
that's because you don't like your current work. you can try to change another work, or if your work is not busy, you can try to  continue your study. Anyway, god bless u~~

firstly ,i must improve my english !
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14楼: Originally posted by liaocw5872 at 2012-07-05 14:07:20
Sorry to hear your story. Maybe we are in a similar age, and worry about the same things. It's a pity that you feel bad in company. However, in my opinions, working in companies is much better than b ...

thank you so much ,my friend ! i feel much better now . i 'm just in a down time ,i'll  brace myself up as soon as possible!
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13楼: Originally posted by 635129289 at 2012-07-05 10:59:05
maybe it is your Job burnout period. most of people who have been worke a period of time such as one year or two years and so on will become upset and fell boring. this penomena is called Job burnout ...

yes , you are right . i am tring to ajust mood.
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fungixx: 金币+1, haha~ wawa~ then you will marry next year, wow~ 2012-07-06 11:48:47
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11楼: Originally posted by dobo at 2012-07-04 23:47:27
Get married and have a child.

but the child's father doesn't agree ! he said , only after the child's mother pass her "ben min gnian ",he will marry her.i have been waiting for the day for a long time !
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5楼: Originally posted by 执手-偕老 at 2012-07-04 22:31:35
I can understand the general meaning，I also learn chemistry analysis

i work mainly on isolation and purification ,hehe
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26楼: Originally posted by lanhui_yang at 2012-07-05 20:42:53
but the child's father doesn't agree ! he said , only after the child's mother pass her "ben min gnian ",he will marry her.i have been waiting for the day for a long time !...

Bless! At least you have someone waiting for you
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Best wishes.
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29楼: Originally posted by serena7 at 2012-07-05 21:46:59
I just finish my senior high, and I choose material chemistry as my first willing. My mother said that she should pay for my life for another 10 years because chemistry is not easy to find a impress  ...

thank you ! i majored in  pharmacy at college .at first ,i thought it would be closer to medicine .but it 's close to chemistry actually.whatever,anything is worth doing ,is worth doing well ! i'm ok now .thank you again .
wish you have a wonderful time at college!
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30楼: Originally posted by davy1598 at 2012-07-06 09:25:53
First.You should ask yourself what do you want.what are you interesting in? If you dont konw ,Its very very terrible.So you must have a shor goal and a long goal .and  mak  plan for them. then do you ...

thank you for your advice !
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33楼: Originally posted by lanhui_yang at 2012-07-08 10:31:19
thank you ! i majored in  pharmacy at college .at first ,i thought it would be closer to medicine .but it 's close to chemistry actually.whatever,anything is worth doing ,is worth doing well ! i'm o ...

Thank you.
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