[交流] 外语学习、English Cafe、出国考试yy英语口语交流第九期活动公告，敬请参与已有13人参与

一．活动目的
为了使虫友们更好的用英文交流，提高口语水平，emuch每周将提供一个展现自我，提升自我的舞台，由科研生活区主办，ec版、外语版、留学版协办，决定于6月23日晚20点到晚22点举办“YY英语口语交流活动”。我们希望通过本次活动，能让虫友们认识到口语学习的重要性，提高虫友们对英语口语训练的积极性。

二．活动主题
·The boundary of friendship 友情的界限；
·以及继续商讨暂定于6月30号晚YY第十次活动，举办第一次木虫YY口语辩论大赛的相关事宜。

三．参与对象
各版主以及在YY上的各位虫友

四．活动时间
2012年6月23日 星期六  20：00--22：00

五．活动地点
（频道：68788988，频道子版块为：英语口语，密码为：emuch，并对YY进行录音）

六．活动流程
20:00--22:00 由主持人围绕相关话题引导带动大家进行口语交流。
注|:为锻炼大家的英语口语能力，各环节须用英文表达。

七．具体工作安排
1.   本次活动策划和主持人为外学版专家顾问okitworks;
2.   相关协助人员由其他版主和YY人员负责。

八. 具体活动话题和安排
20：00 主持人宣布活动开始，并就以下sub-topics引导大家展开交流和讨论；

引用回帖:

——From okitworks

[No. 9th Topic]Oops, I can't get close with you, my close friend! (The boundary of friendship)
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There was one day, my best friend told me that he might develop the friendship between him and a familiar girl from his company into romantic way. The girl is more initiative than him. And he told me the girl's personality, character and some funny or warm stories happened. However, unfortunately, there are some not good aspects, such as drinking alcohol, coming back to apartment late and shopping a lot.

So as his close friend, I really did my fully analyzing for him, according to the experiences I have and the stories shared by other friends for these years. Then I suggested him do not melt himself because of being going after. Because I know he is the one who in his whole life will be responsible for, once he accepted, the girl who loves him. And I can almost hear the bell of wedding. I do best wishes for him. But I just want him to make the calm and thoughtful choice that does the girl the one who fits him?

After my I told him what I was concerned, he looked at me with a complex face reflecting a deep thought, combined with long time silence. I suddenly realized that maybe I crossed some BOUNDARY OF FRIENDSHIP I never notice before, and was meddling his privacy and doubting his ability and confidence to handle his private life. But as his close friend, at that time I did think I should provide him the relatively more complete information at his case, thus he could did the decision more comprehensive.  Because it's not a kidding for temporary, but whole life company for each other.

Let's talk about this situation happened.
1) If you are in my position, what did you do? Why? Do you have a familiar case?

2) If you are in the position as my close friend, what is your opinion about such the honest or meddling suggestions?Do you think he is childish or considerate?

3) How do you definite the BOUNDARY OF FRIENDSHIP? Did you suffer such the problem before?

4) If you notice your close friend maybe go the wrong way or has some bad habits, will you tell them?

5) Because of studying in college or working in somewhere, we and our close friends rarely have chance to stay together or even called each other. Are there any subtle changes happened among you? What did you do to keep close with them?

6) If you have a bad mood, what is your way to solve it? Calling friends, eating, shopping, watching movies or just let it go...
If you choose calling your friends but you don't get comfortable response you expected, do you feel appreciating or disappointing?

7)With age grows, are you still insisting your opinion as past? If not, what make it change?

Welcome to share your opinions or stories about this topic or just come to join us as in a cafe. And matching cases or stories from memory, books or social media are also been needed!

They got married, by the way. Read more:coming to discuss or listen on live

22：00自由交流讨论，可以交流经验或心得方法等，中英文不限，也可以唱歌，目的在于活跃轻松气氛，吸引更多虫友的关注和加入 发言精彩者和献唱虫子均有金币奖励；
22：30 主持人宣布晚会结束，上传录音，汇总活动，发到外语学习版，EC版，出国考试版。
注|：具体时间安排由主持人把握，敬请大家配合。

口语辩论大赛火热筹备中，等你来参与讨论参加筹划~~
本周六活动将会商讨与策划辩论活动，正式征集参赛虫子报名，精彩不容错过哟~~
Discussions, communications and arguments are all accepted and encouraged in the activity.
Looking forward to your wonderful performance!

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