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we have never contacted with each other since graduated from high school, and now 14 years past, he called me once after 2010 spring festival, and i was very excited at that moment,because we both left home and stayed in beijing, even lived in the same town, he said he got my phone number from our classmates, and said we could chat with each other at the free time, however, he replied at once that he needed to be on a business trip, and promised the meeting postponed to his returned day when i said i have free time in the next day, at that time, i thought it is normal, i told my colleagues the coincidence cheerful and waited day by day. but that wasn't the truth, he disappeared without any trace. to my unexpected, i received his call for another meeting yesterday afternoon, i told him intuitively that i am very busy while i have nothing to do at home, the reason why i lied is, firstly, i still felt angry about his dishonesty, secondly, the most important thing is i didn't know how to communicate with heterosexual Friends, especially we used to be unfamiliar, so what can i do in this situation? PS: our classmate,who gave my phone number to him, asked me whether he contacted with me or not when we met at this spring festival, i told him the details, maybe this is the reason why he called me again. [ Last edited by tonger1234 on 2012-3-4 at 22:35 ] |
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curton(金币+2): familiar with classmates 2012-03-06 19:47:04
curton(金币+2): familiar with classmates 2012-03-06 19:47:04
I think it's OK and no concerns about it. As for me, I feel familiar with classmates from senior school, even those I seldom or never talk to them at that time. He didn't contact with you instantly because he was trapped in business ? Try to let the cat out of the bag |
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