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[½»Á÷] whatever you exclude is what you have to learn!

That you see from others is really helpful to yourself.
In the opinions of others, we mainly judge a person depending on how they make us see yourself what, not how we look at them.
You all of the interpersonal relationship is a mirror, through them, you can understand the true self.
You find each other in the process, before you know it you and then you also discovered. To understand his feelings, thoughts, you also know more about yourself, your mutual become the mirror of each other.
If you think your partner lost enthusiasm on you, it may be because you would also lose enthusiasm; Like a marriage expert said: "if we marriage becomes boring, maybe it is because I feel boring, or worse, I this person is so boring."
In fact, those who make you dislike of the people in to help you, he help you to know yourself, and let you found your dark side of things. This is why, when we talk to the more one close, the easier it is to produce disgust, because he let you see his face.
Others make you hate the most the place, is usually the most you can't stand her place.

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it really deserve you all to read it!
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С¶¡×Ó(½ð±Ò+1): well, yeah, introspection is crucial for ones improvement:) 2012-01-07 21:34:47
no one can stand on the others side, exectaly.  introspection is a good way to improve oneself, maybe.

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life and the person around us are all mirror for us
we could learn sth good for them
and also sth which we refuse to take it
then maybe we should change ourselves
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Totally agree...
Sometimes I don't like a guy or his comments, but suddenly I realise that sometimes I will be that kind of a guy, exactly the same...
If I don't like him, I don't like myself... I should use others' behavior as a mirror to improve myself...
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quiet fair opinion.
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