[交流] 【weekly topic】How do you express yourself?

Hi, all
Are you good at communicating with others? How do you express yourself usually?

Communication happens everywhere.  But have you realized someone is good at it while another ones often can't express themselves very well? Some ones like talking and making speech, and a part of them are easy to be the public focus, since their words are always so attractive, interesting or touching, while some others' words will be taken as chattering boringly, or make the listeners confused and lost. Why does this happen? How do you express yourself and communicate with others?

There must be some skills of communication. What's yours? Share it with us~~~~~

As for expressing ourselves, here is another issue which may happen on some ones: sometimes, we can get along well with unfamiliar people, but when it comes to someone who we are closed to or care about greatly, conversely, we don't know how to handle it and really do a bad job. Sometimes, we do care about them, but instead of expressing our feeling with some words or actions, we will even do nothing just as if ignore them. How does this happen? What should we to to avoid this kind of "hurt"?

Is there something similar happening on you? and what's your solution or suggestions? Thanks very much for your sharing~~