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Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I¡¯d be twins!¡± He was a natural motivator. Âõ¿Ë¶ûÊÇÄÇÖÖÄãÕæÏëºÞÒ»ºÞµÄ¼Ò»ï£¬Ëû×ÜÊÇÀֺǺǵģ¬×ÜÊÇ˵Щ»ý¼«ÉϽøµÄ»°¡£Èç¹ûÓÐÈËÎÊËû½ü¿öÈçºÎ£¬Ëû»áÕâÑù»Ø´ð£º¡°Èç¹ûÎÒ»¹ÄÜÔٺã¬ÎҾͳÉË«°ûÌ¥ÁË£¡¡±ËûÉúÀ´¾Í»áÈÃÈË»ý¼«½øÈ¡¡£ If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked him, "I don' t get it. You can' t be positive all the time. How do you do it?" Èç¹ûÄÄλ¹ÍÔ±ÓÐÌì¹ýµÃºÜÔã¸â£¬Âõ¿Ë¶û»á¸æËßËûÈçºÎ¿´´ýÎÊÌâµÄ»ý¼«Ò»Ãæ¡£ËûµÄÕâÖÖ·½Ê½×ÅʵÈÃÎÒºÃÆæ£¬ËùÒÔÓÐÒ»ÌìÎÒÕÒµ½Âõ¿Ë¶ûÎÊ£º¡°ÎÒÕæÅª²»Ã÷°×¡£ÄãÔõôÄÜ×ÜÊÇÄÇÑù»ý¼«ÀÖ¹Û£¿ÄãÊÇÈçºÎ×öµ½ÕâÒ»µãµÄ£¿¡± Michael replied, each morning I wake up and say to myself 'Mike, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life." Âõ¿Ë¶û»Ø´ð˵£¬¡°Ã¿ÌìÔ糿ÐÑÀ´Ê±ÎÒ¶Ô×Ô¼ºËµ£¬¡®Âõ¿Ë£¬½ñÌìÄãÓÐÁ½ÖÖÑ¡Ôñ¡£Äã¿ÉÒÔÑ¡ÔñÐÄÇéÓä¿ì£¬ÄãÒ²¿ÉÒÔÑ¡ÔñÐÄÇé¶ñÁÓ¡£¡¯ÎÒÑ¡ÔñÐÄÇéÓä¿ì¡£Ã¿´Îʲô²»Óä¿ìµÄÊÂÇé·¢Éúʱ£¬ÎÒ¿ÉÒÔÑ¡Ôñ³ÉΪһ¸öÎþÉüÆ·£¬Ò²¿ÉÒÔÑ¡Ôñ´ÓÖÐÎüÈ¡½Ìѵ¡£ÎÒÑ¡Ôñ´ÓÖÐÎüÈ¡½Ìѵ¡£Ã¿´ÎÓÐʲôÈËÕÒÎÒÀ´±§Ô¹£¬ÎÒ¿ÉÒÔÑ¡Ôñ½ÓÊÜËûÃǵı§Ô¹£¬Ò²¿ÉÒÔÑ¡ÔñÏòËûÖ¸³öÉú»îµÄ»ý¼«Ãæ¡£ÎÒÑ¡ÔñÖ¸³öÉú»îµÄ»ý¼«Ãæ¡£¡± "Yeah, right. It isn't that easy." I protested. ¡°Êǵ쬲»´í¡£¿É²¢²»ÄÇôÈÝÒ×ѽ¡£¡±ÎÒ±íʾÒìÒé¡£ Yes it is, " Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line is: It's your choice how you live life. " I reflected on what Michael said. ¡°ÆäʵºÜÈÝÒ×£¬¡±Âõ¿Ë¶û˵¡£¡°Éú»î¾ÍÊÇÑ¡Ôñ¡£´ÓÿһÊÂÎïÌÞ³ýÒ»ÇÐÖ¦½ÚºóÊ£ÏµĶ¼ÊÇÒ»ÖÖÑ¡Ôñ¡£ÄãÑ¡ÔñÈçºÎÓ¦¸¶Éú»îÖеÄÖÖÖÖÇéÐΡ£ÄãÑ¡ÔñËûÈË»áÔõÑùÓ°ÏìÄãµÄÇéÐ÷¡£ÄãÑ¡ÔñÊÇÐÄÇéÓä¿ì»¹ÊÇÐÄÇé¶ñÁÓ¡£Ëµµ½µ×£ºÈçºÎÉú»îÊÇÄã×Ô¼ºµÄÑ¡Ôñ¡£¡±ÎÒ×ÁÄ¥×ÅÂõ¿Ë¶ûµÄÕâϯ»°¡£ Soon thereafter, I left the big enterprise that I had worked in for years to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often though about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard Michael was involved in a serious accident, falling off 60 feet from a communications tower. ÄÇÒԺ󲻾ã¬ÎÒÀ뿪Á˹¤×÷ÊýÄêµÄ´óÆóҵȥ´´½¨×Ô¼ºµÄ¹«Ë¾¡£ÎÒÃÇʧȥÁËÁªÏµ£¬µ«µ±ÎÒ¶ÔÉú»î×ö³öÒ»ÖÖÑ¡Ôñ¶ø·Ç¶ÔËü×ö³ö·´Ó¦Ê±£¬ÎÒʱ³£ÏëÆðÂõ¿Ë¶û¡£¼¸ÄêÖ®ºó£¬ÎÒÌý˵Âõ¿Ë¶ûÔâÓöÒ»³¡¶ñÐÔʹʣ¬´ÓÒ»×ùͨѶ´óÂ¥µÄ60Ó¢³ß¸ß´¦µôÁËÏÂÀ´¡£ After l8 hours of surgery, and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back. I saw Michael about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I¡¯d be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place. ÔÚ¾ÀúÁË18¸öСʱµÄÊÖÊõºÍÊýÖܵľ«ÐÄ»¤ÀíÖ®ºó£¬Âõ¿Ë¶û³öÔºÁË£¬±³²¿×°ÓнðÊô¸Ë¡£´óԼʹʰëÄêÖ®ºó£¬ÎÒ¼ûµ½ÁËÂõ¿Ë¶û¡£µ±ÎÒÎÊËûÔõôÑùʱ£¬Ëû»Ø´ð£¬¡°Èç¹ûÎÒ»¹ÄÜÔٺã¬ÎҾͳÉË«°ûÌ¥ÁË¡£Ïë¿´¿´ÎÒµÄÉ˰ÌÂ𣿡±ÎҾܾø¿´ËûµÄÉ˺ۣ¬µ«µÄÈ·ÎÊÁËËûʹʷ¢ÉúʱËûÊÇÔõôÏëµÄ¡£ The first thing that went through my mind was the well being of my soon-to-born daughter," Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, remembered I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live." "Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Michael continued, "... the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the operation room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, l read 'He's a dead man.' I knew I needed to take action." "What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me" said Michael. "She asked me if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I said. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled", 'Gravity'" Over their laughter, I told them, 'I'm choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead'." ¡°ÎÒÊ×ÏÈÏëµ½µÄÊÇÎÒÄǼ´½«³öÊÀµÄÅ®¶ùµÄÐÒ¸£Éú»î£¬¡±Âõ¿Ë¶û´ðµÀ¡£¡°µ±Ê±ÎÒÌÉÔÚµØÉÏ£¬ÎÒ¼ÇÆðÎÒÓÐÁ½ÖÖÑ¡Ôñ£ºÎÒ¿ÉÒÔÑ¡Ôñ»î×Å£¬Ò²¿ÉÒÔÑ¡ÔñËÀ¡£ÎÒÑ¡ÔñÁ˻¡±¡°ÄãÄѵÀ²»º¦ÅÂÂð£¿Äãʧȥ֪¾õÁËÂ𣿡±ÎÒÎÊ¡£Âõ¿Ë¶û½Ó×Å˵£¬¡°¡¡ÄÇЩ»¤ÀíÈËÔ±°ô¼«ÁË¡£ËûÃDz»Í£µØ¸æËßÎÒÎÒ»áºÃµÄ¡£µ«µ±ËûÃǰÑÎÒÍÆ½øÊÖÊõÊÒ£¬ÎÒ¿´µ½Ò½ÉúºÍ»¤Ê¿Á³ÉϵıíÇéʱ£¬ÎÒÕæÊÇÏÅ»µÁË¡£ÔÚËûÃǵÄÑÛÀÎÒ¶Á³öÁË¡®ËûÊǸöËÀÈË¡£¡¯ÎÒÖªµÀÎÒÓ¦¸Ã²ÉÈ¡Ðж¯¡£¡±¡°Äã²ÉÈ¡ÁËʲôÐж¯£¿¡±ÎÒÎʵÀ¡£¡°ÓÐһλÈ˸ßÂí´óµÄ»¤Ê¿´óÉù³åÎÒÎÊÎÊÌ⣬¡±Âõ¿Ë¶û˵¡£¡°ËýÎÊÎÒÊÇ·ñ¶Ôʲô¹ýÃô¡£¡®Êǵ쬡¯ÎÒ˵¡£Ò½ÉúºÍ»¤Ê¿¶¼Í£ÏÂÊÖÖеĻî¶ùµÈÎһشð¡£ÎÒÉîÎüÒ»¿ÚÆø´óÉù˵³ö£¬¡®ÍòÓÐÒýÁ¦¡£¡¯ËûÃǵÄЦÉùδÁË£¬ÎÒ¸æËßËûÃÇ£¬¡®ÎÒÑ¡Ôñ»î×Å¡£°ÑÎÒµ±»îÈ˶ø²»ÊÇËÀÈËÀ´×öÊÖÊõ¡£¡¯¡± Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I 1eamed from him that every day we have a choice to live fully. Attitude is everything. Âõ¿Ë¶û»îÁËÏÂÀ´£¬ÕâÒª¸ÐлËûÄÇЩҽÉúµÄ¸ßÃ÷Ò½Êõ£¬µ«Ò²Òª¹é¹¦ÓÚËûÄÇÁîÈËÔÞ̾µÄ̬¶È¡£ÎÒ´ÓËûÄÇÀïѧµ½ÁËÎÒÃÇÿÌì¶¼Óлú»á³äʵµØ»î×Å£¬¹Ø¼üÊÇ̬¶È¡£ |
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