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送鲜花一朵phu_grassman(金币+5): You are so professional. haha. 2011-06-15 21:30:46
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Usually you don't love the one who loves you, but the one you love don't love you. of course you two love each other is better. if the things don't go well, many people don't choose to wait the one who you love each other. People always say that girls should choose a person who love you, but boys should choose a person who is loved. I think it is reasonable. [ Last edited by lyingcylvia on 2011-6-15 at 21:32 ] |
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phu_grassman(金币+4): Thanks for your opinion. Mutual love is the perfect thing one can persue. 2011-06-15 21:34:58
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I prefer to love each other. Love affair is just a short period of the long life together of the couple. In my opinion, love affair is very happy whether loving or being loved, but the happy love life and happy family are more attractive. |
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phu_grassman(金币+5): I hold the same attitude as you. I never expect much from love, hehe. 2011-06-15 22:06:27
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I want to say in the real world, it is always ridiculous as the one who love or being loved is always out of one's expection. For instance, you love me, but I donnot like you and in fact I fall in love with another who gives his or hers to someone else. So what I want to say is that only the attitude towards love makes sense. “It's lucky if I get it，and it's destiny if I lose it .” Take an easy-going attitude towards love affairs might be a good way. But how many can we have? [ Last edited by 爱与雨下 on 2011-6-16 at 03:42 ] |
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phu_grassman(金币+8): Thanks for your suggestion. I also realize the problem. Most of the guys chose the last one. I've no idea about love now. Maybe I will answer you later. 2011-06-16 10:03:34
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Which is happier, loving or being loved? I think this topic only have two choices:loving or being loved. and it should be a single-choice topic.so loving each other should not be included in this topic.Because every body will choose this without hesitation. In my opinion, if having to choose,different period and different gender may have different choice. As a man ,If you just want to find a girlfriend , then find a person you love.Chasing a person may be more interesting for you.But If you want to find a wife, I think finding a person beling loved may be better.After all ,you need to live with her for the whole life. But a girl may have different choice comparing with a man. I am not a girl ,So I do not know. phu_grassman can give us your choice.hehe |
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phu_grassman(金币+6): Thanks. 2011-06-16 11:33:14
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Loving each other is the best.The one-way love always make one of the two to bear great pressure.Sometimes love can like to play chess，and the pressure will be pured to the opposite side.But ones must keep a faith of love to consider，to face everything，it will goes well. I think loving each other is a little better，though this proportion is less.There must be one person to stand more pressure in love and another less.Bless everyone，wish you to love your lover with forgiveness.  |
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phu_grassman(金币+5): Come on, your English is not that bad as you say. I understand. Wish you find your princess soon. Good luck. 2011-06-16 11:38:03
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i insist to find a girl i love and she love me ,because we will live together for a long time,until to death, so i can not imagine the girl live together with me everyday does not love me or i do not love her, of course i will go after a girl who i love but if she does not love me, i think i will quit and let her to persuit her happiness maybe i do not express my ider very well,my english is to be improved,  |
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