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witch_girl(金币+2): such a heavy topic... 2011-05-29 21:11:47
I also always think why people should get married.

I would be more puzzled why people marry someone he or she doesn't love at all and just for some other reasons.

sometimes I think, if you could not marry the one you love , then , marrying anyone else is the same.

if I have enough money,If I can support myself and my family quite well, I'd not like to marry.

it is really strange why people should get married. but, the pressure from the family and the society is so heavy. it is not a thing whether we like, but a thing we should do.
人活着好没意思啊
11楼2011-05-29 17:15:40
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Originally posted by lppv at 2011-05-29 17:15:40:
I also always think why people should get married.

I would be more puzzled why people marry someone he or she doesn't love at all and just for some other reasons.

sometimes I think, if you c ...

Good point, and we just mentioned, it is not only a problem of individuals, but a problem of society. Most of us consider that a family would be a kind of final happiness we pursue, the so-called "marry just as marriage".
生平不抽烟,不饮酒,不喝咖啡,一杯龙井相伴,笑读五经诸史;惟愿少鲁莽,少冲动,少说气话,三思后行为戒,淡看百事纷争。
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lppv(金币+1): sounds so helpless... 2011-05-29 17:42:29
I don't know why we merry,but I know you will be married。
继续努力。。。。
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Originally posted by houjt1987 at 2011-05-29 17:34:01:
I don't know why we merry,but I know you will be married。

Why?
生平不抽烟,不饮酒,不喝咖啡,一杯龙井相伴,笑读五经诸史;惟愿少鲁莽,少冲动,少说气话,三思后行为戒,淡看百事纷争。
15楼2011-05-29 19:16:25
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witch_girl(金币+2): bless...:tiger28::tiger28: 2011-05-29 21:12:42
the reason one get married can be the pressure of the society or one getting the age of getting married.whether we complain it or not is not important,I think,we must consider for our parents.As nearly 50 years’ couple,they look forward to a grandson(no matter boy or girl).I think we have the responsibility to satisfy them and I must do it.
I must stop here...this topic can raise my sorrow...just here
bless everyone
Dreamofyou...
16楼2011-05-29 19:32:31
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jackzhuning

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i  dont konw!
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17楼2011-05-29 20:45:38
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witch_girl

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I don't know...

difficult..
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18楼2011-05-29 21:09:56
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lppv(金币+1): sounds nice, best wishes. welcome to english cafe. 2011-05-30 21:48:15
To marry somebody is a decision made by heart. I want to marry my GG  someday because he is very suitable for me and being with him is very happy.He is my sunshine.
遇见更好的自己
19楼2011-05-29 21:23:12
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yanqingwangyong

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'shotgun marriage' oh , learn a lot !
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