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爱与雨下

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[交流] Why should we marry?

Just because we are at the age of what we should do?
Or we are just great partners in every-day life,and everything tells us we are suitable for getting married?
Or we cannot bear the sounds around which comes from our parents who are waging their tongues to persuade you into the "holly  paradise".
Or just due to an unplanned pregnancy, so we have to have a shotgun marriage ?
Or just due to a single reason, because we are lonely, and eager to have someone to kill the boring time?
While right now I am living with everything  all my own, I am not afraid of take responsibilities. But I have no confidence because I have doubt on the eternal love, I see so many get married and soon divoced even for trifles which are far from mentioned. One day I saw them shoulder to shoulder giggling, and then the other day I saw them shouting  to each as each was the last enermy.Where did the so-called consideration go? How could they hand in hand creat the fabulous future and enjoy the happiness?
So why should we marry?
I think it is not only my puzzles, but the majority of us have the same too. That's why so many in big cities such as Shanghai and Peiking are living alone. Happniess modle in most of us is having a family and children around. Then marriage means a lot. But why is marriage called "the tomb of love"?
Welcome for you discussion, and thanks a lot!

[ Last edited by 爱与雨下 on 2011-5-29 at 14:43 ]
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xia_chong(金币+3): Good opinion! That's an ordinary life and common idea. 2011-05-29 15:47:22
When you come across with someone who desevers your love,then you two hang together.Loving is such a mysterious thing that bothers so many people in all ages.From the perspective of view,marriage is the best symbol of loving ,however,many families broke because of the unpleasant trifles.On the other hand,marriage is not only loving itself,but also it represents a kind of responsibility. Marriage doesn't only matter with you two,but two combined families.What we should do is loving her,protecting her and supporting the families.
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xia_chong(金币+2): That's a good idea. But the fact contains more things. :D 2011-05-29 15:47:55

When the wedding day is set, you know the time you are going to marry someone. a wedding is a day, a marriage last years and only love is forever.  

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