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mengstar(金币+1): thank u very much ! 2011-05-23 21:56:01

a lover is the one who you can rely on.

and a friend is the one who you can chat with.

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I don't know either.

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5楼2011-05-23 21:52:14

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mengstar(金币+1): i am sorry ,i am afraid u misunderstand .the lover is meaning like girlfriend . 2011-05-23 22:01:57

just to remind you that

LOVER means: a partner in a sexual relationship outside marriage
while
FRIEND means: a person you know well and like, and who is not usually a member of your family

choose what you want

6楼2011-05-23 21:53:39

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mengstar(金币+1): yes thank u 2011-05-23 22:04:14

we should own the lover and friends. they are a necessary part of our's life.

7楼2011-05-23 21:59:32

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mengstar(金币+1): i see ,thank u 2011-05-23 22:21:49

Are you confused about lover and friend? I guess a person performed as both roles in your life appeared in your life. Take your time, time will be a test for this special relationship.

8楼2011-05-23 22:20:37

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phu_grassman(金币+1): Friends are always there for us, I can't agree more. 2011-05-24 08:59:10
mengstar(金币+1): yes ,sometimes it is .but mostly you can talk everything with your lover,i think . 2011-05-24 22:19:55

The only thing I know is that something you can only tell to your friends, and something you can talk with your lover, sometimes lover can be changed, but friends always be there.

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9楼2011-05-23 22:28:37

郭继波

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Originally posted by mengstar at 2011-05-23 21:44:01:
as lover (meaning of boyfriend or girlfriend )or friend
which one u like ?
what is different between them ?
if u know
tell me please
i really don't know

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all of them

because they are different part in my life.

10楼2011-05-23 22:43:18

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phu_grassman(金币+1): hehe，special understanding. 2011-05-24 08:58:17
mengstar(金币+1): how to say ? 2011-05-24 22:21:00

Wine with lover,beer with friends.

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11楼2011-05-23 22:47:34

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mengstar(金币+1): yes ,both of them we can't leave . 2011-05-24 22:21:36

I just know, we need both of them...

12楼2011-05-23 23:17:27

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mengstar(金币+1): thank u very much . 2011-05-24 22:23:26

as a lover, he or she will go forward together with you.so there is not only care，and also support & understanding. as a friend，even if you are far from each other or not contacted with each other，you always want to help him or her when he or she is hard.
whether a lover or not，it is in your own heart.

13楼2011-05-24 12:43:29

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mengstar(金币+1): maybe you are right . 2011-05-24 22:32:17

MM, my suggestion is to get married, then you will be free of those superficial confusions once and for all !

14楼2011-05-24 13:05:35

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LOVER is the one you can leave someday if you dont like him or her
friend is the one you can contact with for ever untill he or she betrays you

15楼2011-05-25 12:49:15

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these are two kinds of people, and we need both

16楼2011-05-25 13:01:19

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17楼2011-05-25 16:28:15

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18楼2011-05-25 16:29:09

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You are too young to get this!

19楼2011-05-25 16:30:53

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20楼2011-05-25 16:37:04

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we should cherish the lover and friends. they are a necessary part of our's life

21楼2011-05-25 16:49:48

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22楼2011-05-25 17:25:29

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Originally posted by mengstar at 2011-05-25 16:37:04:
ohhhhhhhhh
are u sure ?
i am a adult .

Then why u ask us about such an important factor relating to whether u are a real adult!

23楼2011-05-25 19:22:51

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24楼2011-05-25 22:25:35

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Originally posted by mengstar at 2011-05-25 22:25:35:
i know u must say
i am just a little girl
i want to say
i am not only a little girl
sometimes maybe thow myself for a loss
so need you help
thank u

Then sorry for my previous answers!
And wish you good luck!

25楼2011-05-26 10:48:08

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26楼2011-05-26 12:48:11

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can u speak chinese?

27楼2011-05-26 15:29:01

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28楼2011-05-26 15:34:55

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A lover is the one who will spend his(her) whole life with you ,and say "i love u" to you everyday or ask you to wear more clothes when it get colder ,or even the one who can forgive you when you do sth hurt you.
A friend is the one you can always give you a hand when you in troouble .
you can understand it gradually with time goes ,never mix friendship with love,it's important .

29楼2011-05-26 15:55:00