[交流] 【Original】Making up a mind

BC is going to get married this weekend, inviting me to the wedding party. I really want to, but when I think of the long distance, I feel bad. The carsickness makes me feel terrible everytime, I would recover from it in a day or more. He is one of the best friend of mine at college, I should not miss his wedding day. Maybe I will regret of it if I don't go there, he is really a nice guy at that time. I was such a ordinary girl then, wore the clothes my mother tailored for me, comfortable, but not pretty, not fashional . Few of the boys and girls in the class want to make friends with me. I was alone most of the time. We were good friends at our sophomore year, we used to go to class together, enjoyed the same books and films. We talked more about the future, promised to get along together as often as possible after our graduation. At the end of 2009 when I got married holding my wedding at Zhuozhou, I was in the hope of he can come, but he had just started work and have no time for that. I feel so lost, so I think that I should go to his wedding, or he would get sad as I did. If you really think he is your best friend, then why cann't you do someting for him, like going there to congratulate him. I think you can tell whether the person is a real friend or not from those tiny little things in our daily life. When I took a job graduated from college I found people are kind to each other usually, except the conflict comes out. They will fight each other untill someone gets the benifit. So, it's harder to find a good friend after you start working. The old one seems to be more precious, though I know he would understand me if I don't come. I find myself rarely do things for others and I should make a change. OK, I make up my mind now, go to his wedding! [ Last edited by yanglinast on 2011-1-21 at 21:40 ]

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