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yinyongfu521

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[交流] 【Sad】my girl friend has a terrible temper

my dear girlfriend has a very bad temper. she is outgoing all the time. the first time you see her, you may think she is slowly and soft. but when bad things happened, she tendly to be very implused. at that moment,she looks like a lion, male lion. at the other time, she is ok ,just like normal person and even better than normal person. i don't know how to make her calm down at that time. although i know she is intended no harm, still i am worried what she will get if she does like this in the future with those strangers. she is quite polite to those strangers and those acquaintance,but to her friend and parents she turns to be very terrible. she is very serious to all persons besides her. and if she is intended to benefit someone, he/she can't misunderstand her. or she will get angry strongly. for example, several days ago she buys me a pair of shoes with 328RMB. i think it too expensive, so i said a few times, then make her angry. she thinks she is doing good for me, i should only be grateful for her with no complains. even i can'y say out my true feeling if she thinkls she is doing  kindness to me. the same  things happend today, she turn to be a male lion again in the public. for she bought a coat for her little brother, he says unintentionally "in this price we can by two coats in our hometown".  so small a thing, she get fired. how to do ? although she is easy expoding and easy calm,still it repeats too frequently. how should i do??
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Originally posted by yinyongfu521 at 2011-01-16 22:23:07:

thank you  for sharing you experiences. the true question is that although she has an impluse temper, she is getting along with all the people around her very well.  so sometimes i even don't whe ...

I was same with her, i said 'i can not get along with others' means 'i can not get along with my family and boyfriend'.
I don't know why, I can always smile to so many people, but to my boyfriend and family ......
Maybe I have high require to him, so now I always tell myself He is just a mormal humanbeing, he may make mistakes, he may forget somethings, we may have different opinions,... and I must accept all of this(I am not a perfect girl either)~~~Now I am more happy~~~
when one realizes his/her problem, the positive psychological hint is important for solving it.
does she realize her problem???
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green1223

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xia_chong(金币+1): You are so nice!O(∩_∩)O~ 2011-01-16 21:40:26
it is one delicate question !   i think she need change her temper otherwise must lead some harm for her and the other people , may her good friend can understand her but not ever .
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