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【原创】Another Explanation to "MBA"-------Married but Available? 已有3人参与
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Today,I wanna say sth about a disputed phenomenon especially in some developed countries or areas,that is, a person's long-standing faithfulness to his/her partner/spouse. Why this topic? Last weekend,one of my soul-mates came to visit me and we had a chat in a cafe.She was painful because she has fallen in love with a married man who once gave her some help when she was dealing with life trouble.She has a younger brother studying at college now who mainly depends on his elder sister working in an insurance company in this "mosic" city. The problem lies in that the young lady has had a BF while the man offerring her help has been married and his wife mainly acts as a housewife without going out to work. With their communications going on,one day the man came to her city on business and called her telling that he wanted to see her in the hotel he booked.Things happened like this:the girl went for the meeting,and the man showed great concern on her life and her boyfriend.Surprisingly enough,the man spoke out a word and rasied a further request of developing a special relationship with her. The word is "MBA"---"Married but Available"! As a matter of fact,the real meaning of this expression is of course not new to us.But,what if a "MBA" situation happens to you in your life? To be frank,for some people,there is another explanation to "EMBA"---"Even Married but Available".Those so-called "fashionable"and "successful" businessmen seem to find fun in this world,rather than spare their time and focus their love on their own wives;while there are some girls or married women who have been or are being tempted by those men. What a coincidence!I read a news that some one suggested that a girl could or should choose to marry a 40-year old man if her BF could not even afford a house!! I listened to the friend's telling her story,but was not able to persuade her to refuse her another appointment with that man.It's really a question worth ponderring.Should a person bear in mind that faithfulness to his/her partner/spouse is essential and of vital significance as a humanbeing? All in all,such things do happen almost every day;perhaps we can not understand those people or change their choices.Even so,we thank their trust in us and their story which will help us think about ourselves to make correct decisons when facing puzzles like "to be or not to be a MBA". I do expect those interested in discussing issues such as value of life,love,family and work as well as other experiences to join in some debates,which,at least,contributes to our better understanding questions like "who we are,what we should or not do,why we make this and that mistake,how to rectify and what we really want for our life ". Thank you for your patience and any sharing of your story is welcome here. [ Last edited by 卡卡219 on 2011-1-13 at 00:35 ] |
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| Frankly, I do not identify with the young lady here. If someone offers you help with a purpose, that is not help! Of course, you can say you didn't know he had helped you by design. But one thing you can manage is that you can resist the tempt. It's admitted that living in a modern and big city nowadays gives people a lot of pressure, but that does not give you permission to cheat on your spouses. If you cease to love your spouse, you can get a divorce. It is unacceptable to "love" your spouse, but to seek affairs with others. Of course, it is a divesified world, you can choose to be a MBA or play the game with a MBA if you don't really value true love or your family. |
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